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Grand Magnate
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Dec 09, 2011 at 02:07 AM
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Haven't heard from older brother in months he decided to call tonight to let me know he was going in the AM for kidney cancer surgery. He is a lot older than I am so we have never been that close He is the one brother I really look up to just thought I would get this out there for my own sanity. Thanks! I am a little torn should I go see him or just send a card? Guess I will just wait and see how the surgery go's. Thanks again for letting me vent it sure does help when the tears fall.
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Dec 09, 2011 at 02:17 AM
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It's good that he called & you had a chance to talk. If it's not a major hardship for you, I think you will probably be happier in the long run if you go. Now ... how did that strike you?
You alone know whether you should go. What does your gut say? You could discuss it with him, too. __________________ roads & Charlie |
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Dec 09, 2011 at 04:01 PM
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are you scared is that why you don't want to see him sick?
for me i would go cuz i wouldn't know if that would be the last time i see him, but thats just me. (((hugs))) |
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Grand Magnate
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Dec 10, 2011 at 01:01 AM
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Update, I got a call they got all the cancer! I bought a silly get well card cause that's the way I am think I will go visit tomorrow at the hospital and send card to house as I don't think he will be in long enough to mail it there. Thanks for the support,
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Dec 10, 2011 at 10:53 AM
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Gma.
I pray that your brother comes to a full recovery! Let your tears fall! They will bring you peace. And best wishes that you reconnect with your brother. Many blessing to you and yours. You have inspired many people here by giving them your empathy and hope. Without wanting or asking anything for yourself. (an example of good/bright karma) bringing (a good/bright karma back to you) by Bringing your brother back to you, which as reading your post, is a joyous time. I am so happy to you, keep in touch! Love, Happiedasiy __________________ Happiedasiy, Selfworth growing in my garden 
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