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Dec 17, 2011, 04:14 PM
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My first time posting in here.
I am very very emotional tonight, It would of been my brothers birthday on Monday and I miss him so much I wish he was here, I can't help it, sometimes I wish it was me that was dead (sorry I know that sounds morbid) I hate feeling this crap, I push people away too. |
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Dec 17, 2011, 04:36 PM
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(((((((( Buttercup ))))))))
 Your deep sadness is totally understandable. Be gentle with you.
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Dec 17, 2011, 04:40 PM
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i am sorry about your loss. i try to remember some good things that are left behind from the one who is gone. you are hurting, others need to understand that.
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Dec 17, 2011, 04:52 PM
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((((((((((((Buttercup)))))))))) I'm so sorry. I know you're thinking of your brother; please know that I'm thinking of you. You couldn't push me away. Sending you hugs, dear friend. Always, grey
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Dec 17, 2011, 08:44 PM
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Sorry buttercup.....when someone who has died has a birthday or the holiday coming up, well we grieve.....we miss them. ....perfectly normal, ...in fact it would not be normal if you did not feel sad....its o.k. to feel...you loved him!!!
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#6
Dec 17, 2011, 08:54 PM
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It is not morbid to wish it were you that were dead. It is perfectly normal. Sending you lots of hugs to make it through this day.
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Dec 17, 2011, 10:14 PM
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so sorry for your loss (((hugs)))
maybe writing a letter to your brother might make you feel better. |
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Dec 18, 2011, 08:12 AM
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Thank you all so much for your kind words they mean so much to me. I will feel ok I think once Monday has gone, I woke up crying this morning, He was my eldest brother and he died so suddenly, Why did he just leave us just like that?I Didn't say goodbye properly
 It still hurts.
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Dec 18, 2011, 08:27 AM
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((((((((((((((((( buttercup ))))))))))))))))
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Dec 18, 2011, 02:24 PM
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Buttercup--
As already mentioned-- it is ok to miss and ok to wish, but the best thing is too keep him in your thoughts as you do- I am sorry to hear that you have such a loss, and around a holiday- I hope you the best, and strength, and i hope that you have happy memories of your brother, and to remember them well. Be well |
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