[Justme_55]

My ex I think is a true sociopath, he is bi-polar and so confusing. First he wants contact, then he hates me and wants me to leave him alone, so I do, then he contacts me, I respond then I get told to leave him alone I'm fill in the blank to him. After a year of this crap, I said enough is enough remember this when you've pushed anyone and everyone that cares about you away. I'm so tired of him reeling me in to spew hate and animosity, he's caused me to really sink into a depression, just trying to forget about him, I have to and he has to follow his own advice and leave me alone. He's going to have a lonely web he's weaves full of empty shells and poetic justice, ironic karma.

[pegasus]

Doesn't sound like someone that you need in your life at all.

[Justme_55]

The part that hurts the most is I care about him and his well being, probably more then he does. He told me I can tell it to his corpse lastnight.. Didn't sit well with me.

[Lauru]

Sounds like he has a lot more issues than bipolar going on. I'm bipolar and I don't do that stuff.

[Callmebj]

Hi Justme, I lived with a sick mother, and I cared for her wellbeing, but her cruelty was too much. I actually think living with someone who has mental issues can make another person ill too, and vice versa.

Met a man once at a group meeting for schitzophrenia patient family members. His wife had this; after I observed that man's attitudes and speech I thought, "No Wonder She's Sick." He was enough to drive anyone over a clift. Just rambling here. Do hope you will take care of yourself, and put your priorties first.

Hugs, bj

[Open Eyes]

He is just using you as a pitty pal and also someone to take out his anger on. This is not your fault and your only enabling him by playing into his illness. You have to be careful with others that are drowning, they can truely drag you down into the abyss with them.

I recommend you put your energy into yourself, you have your own issues that you deserve to address.

((((Hugs))))
Open Eyes

Originally Posted by Justme_55

My ex I think is a true sociopath, he is bi-polar and so confusing. First he wants contact, then he hates me and wants me to leave him alone, so I do, then he contacts me, I respond then I get told to leave him alone I'm fill in the blank to him. After a year of this crap, I said enough is enough remember this when you've pushed anyone and everyone that cares about you away. I'm so tired of him reeling me in to spew hate and animosity, he's caused me to really sink into a depression, just trying to forget about him, I have to and he has to follow his own advice and leave me alone. He's going to have a lonely web he's weaves full of empty shells and poetic justice, ironic karma.

He might have ASPD he might have BPD. He is disturbed and should be in treatment. I have BPD and sometimes I'll admit to having some ASPD traits, it depends on whom I'm with or what is going on in my head and body at the time. I'm no prize package. I come with tons of emotional problems and need a lot of kindness, support, reassurance and love. I need more love than I can ever give. So when I chose a mate I chose carefully. I will ALWAYS need a caretaker. Period. Your ex sounds like he will need a "mother" figure. If you want to be that figure than fine. But don't expect this to be an equal healthy relationship.