[Purple Mist]

hey sylvia i think we should go our seperate ways
lets face it we got nothing in common anymore and to be honest things have been strained between us since you first started dating beau and now that you're married to the guy the fun has actually died for us both, any plans had to be completely planned out which really bothers me because i like doing stuff on the spur of the moment
i guess the straw that broke the camels back is the fact that the program you and beau are in requires an adult to stand by even if the visitor is a healthy adult imo its absurd that the program requires a babysitter for 2 24 year olds and 1 26 year old. im even more disgusted that they would want that especially since my mom has spinal problems and can't stay somewhere for very long
beau took the cake in me wanting to sever ties with you and him by refusing to return a clock radio i lent him when we had animal care with ms dow and the sarge
he really showed his true colors as a thief to me snd let me say this: any guy who can blow $100's of dollars on stupid pokemon crap should be able to pay a little bit for shipping and handling
pay your debts before having fun with money sadly he didn't go that route and because of that i want nothing more to do with him
i hope you do have a nice life with a lying thieving husband
bye syl

was i wrong to cut off ties with her?, i feel like im the bad person for wanting to move on with my life which sadly didn't include my college buddy or her lying snake of a husband. its like i still need her in a way and that im not done learning what i needed to learn from her which is making me feel extreme regret, heres a little more about her: she has epilepsy and some other problems. despite the fact that she was older than i was, i had to act as her guide when we were out in the mall together, i remember this one time i had to leave her in the middle of the mall because she took too long in a bath store and my ride was getting very impatient for me to come to the meeting spot. her mother wasn't very happy with me on that one, which really wasn't my fault because i kept telling my friend to hurry up and that i was running late. anyways i needed to get this off of my mind, thanks for listening

[MISERABLE ME]

Hun I am sorry you had to sever ties with your friend but sometimes you have to do what you have to do for yourself many hugz

[shezbut]

Originally Posted by Purple Mist

was i wrong to cut off ties with her?, i feel like im the bad person for wanting to move on with my life which sadly didn't include my college buddy or her lying snake of a husband.

I don't think that you were in the wrong for cutting ties with your friend. That is something you needed to do, to bring yourself closure with your ex-hub. Some things about your friend may have annoyed you, like her slowness. But I don't think that was a big deciding factor in your decision.

I do think that your last comment to your friend were painful to write, and very painful to read! I suspect that is where your sense of guilt is stemming from. To alleviate the guilt that your feeling inside you can apologize to her for your last words. Tell her that you still feel hurt by your ex-hub, and that is something you need to work on. Just say that you really didn't mean to hurt her feelings. Can she forgive you please? That will help you feel a lot better.

[Purple Mist]

Originally Posted by shezbut

I don't think that you were in the wrong for cutting ties with your friend. That is something you needed to do, to bring yourself closure with your ex-hub. Some things about your friend may have annoyed you, like her slowness. But I don't think that was a big deciding factor in your decision.

I do think that your last comment to your friend were painful to write, and very painful to read! I suspect that is where your sense of guilt is stemming from. To alleviate the guilt that your feeling inside you can apologize to her for your last words. Tell her that you still feel hurt by your ex-hub, and that is something you need to work on. Just say that you really didn't mean to hurt her feelings. Can she forgive you please? That will help you feel a lot better.

im rather curious, what makes you think the guy is my ex husband since im still a virgin and never once married

[shezbut]

What is the quote from?

I'm sorry, I was assuming that your quote above was written by you to your friend. I'm totally confused

Sorry.........

[Purple Mist]

Originally Posted by shezbut

What is the quote from?

I'm sorry, I was assuming that your quote above was written by you to your friend. I'm totally confused

Sorry.........

it is written to my friend by me but she, her husband, and i had class together, the 3 of us would sit at the same table and were like the 3 musketeers. things got stale between my friend and i when she started dating our classmate and made excuse after excuse for saying no to any requests of us getting together, i felt more and more like the third wheel and resented it a lot