[Lily2]

I cant stop myself. I will sweep things off the top of my dresser with my arm, or throw something. Im sorry after. I did get my husband to acknowledge that he knows what my reaction will be when hes pushing my buttons. Theres something wrong with him for making me lose control & freak out. I was just wondering if my behavior is common.

[carrie_ann]

i sometimes smash up my house as an alternative to hurting myself, the lesser of the two evils.

as for your husband pushing your buttons ... imo he can't push your buttons unless you let him, unless you rise to it. you have to have control over your own emotions and not give anyone else that power.

just my opinion and not meant to offend.

peace,
emo

[danii24]

yes i just smashd up me kitchen bowls nd cups a while ago but uve to realise its ur anger".Theres something wrong with him for making me lose control & freak out" u cnt blame other people for anger
it might be common but its not right u cnt take ur anger out on people i have an anger management problem too but its up to u to control it

[Lily2]

Originally Posted by danii24

yes i just smashd up me kitchen bowls nd cups a while ago but uve to realise its ur anger".Theres something wrong with him for making me lose control & freak out" u cnt blame other people for anger
it might be common but its not right u cnt take ur anger out on people i have an anger management problem too but its up to u to control it

I understand what you mean when you say its on me, i can't blame him, but heres the thing...i KNOW theres something wrong with me psychologically, & if he was "normal", he wouldn't wanna mess with my head & my emotions,because who does that to someone else? He messes with me hard until i act out. IF I WERE "NORMAL" I WOULD BE ABLE TO WALK AWAY!