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Old Aug 02, 2012, 12:45 AM
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Ok these girls form my school keep calling me ugly and a b**** and all of these really mean things and it's triggering me to do alot of things, I havent done them but it's making me want to do really bad things... how do I deal with this how do I make this stop.
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Old Aug 02, 2012, 01:07 AM
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Best thing to do: Laugh it off. When they say those things to you, just laugh in their face. Don't give them the satisfaction of knowing that it got to you. It will just make them feel failed, and it will make them stop. I know that those things can be hurtful, but if they're not true, then it doesn't matter. They're just words. Don't let anything they say get to you. Just laugh it off, laugh in their face, and let them know that they can't hurt you. Good luck. <3
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Old Aug 02, 2012, 03:09 AM
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Ticli is right! Don't let these awful mean girls get to you. THEY are the ones who have a problem, not YOU.

When you walk by them either laugh, or just smile at them and continue on your way. Boy will THAT get to them. They WANT to hurt you, but when they see it doesn't do a thing to you, they'll stop it. It might take awhile, but they will stop.

They're doing it because it makes THEM feel better about themselves. They don't feel good enough -- so they have to pick on someone else. Some day they'll learn that YOU were the better person -- not them. God bless and please take care of YOU. Hugs, Lee

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Old Aug 05, 2012, 10:50 PM
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Hi hun, i was bullyed in school when i was young, that was when i started cutting, i felt like it was the only thing that would take the pain away, i now have many many many very noticible scars on both sides of my left arm and on my leg, please dont let these losers make you feel like you are anything less than wonderful, dont let them take away your self control, i wish i wouldnt have listened to the poeple that bullyed me because living with my scars is a very sad thing to deal with everyday, i wish you all the best, im here for you!
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Old Aug 07, 2012, 07:36 AM
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I know how hard that is to deal with especially if you have to deal with it all day. I ended up hanging with the wrong people and skipping school because of it. Many hugs....

Try talking to the school counselor.....

try to concentrate on your friends that you have there and pay them no mind....do really well in your classes and stay focused on that....do not let them take over your life.....

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Old Aug 08, 2012, 02:27 AM
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What these girls are saying says a lot more about them than you. They are acting very ugly and b*****y. I would definitely ignore them and smile and hold your head high-they are just being morons. If it helps maybe pretend you are a famous movie star and they are the b actors jealous of you. Remember they are only acting like idiots because they are young and immature. Thankfully, most people grow
up. And dont hurt yourself.
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