[Chrysalis12]

Remember Snow White and the seven dwarves? How could Snow White be so cheerful while effortlessly pleasing everyone she encountered? I try so hard to make people happy but without success. Maybe, I just want to feel like I am needed and not a waste of space. But, I'm just not good enough to deserve that. I'm not like Snow White, I am selfish. I do not only want to care about others, I want others to care about me. I can't stand myself anymore!

Why do you feel like you have to please everyone? Snow White is just a fantasy, I don't think anyone in reality can please everyone effortlessly. Neither would anyone want to do that. It's really draining.

Maybe you could do some volunteer work around your community? That might give you a sense of purpose to help others who are less fortunate.

[Chrysalis12]

Originally Posted by Lara Croft

Why do you feel like you have to please everyone? Snow White is just a fantasy, I don't think anyone in reality can please everyone effortlessly. Neither would anyone want to do that. It's really draining.

Maybe you could do some volunteer work around your community? That might give you a sense of purpose to help others who are less fortunate.

I do volunteer, but I guess I just wished someone cared. I volunteer every week, but the head says I need to be a better volunteer. But, I am already giving it my best. So it seems people love to use me. And once I could not meet my friend's expectations, and that friend abandoned me for better people. So my purpose is to be used and then discarded. I suppose, that is some type of purpose.