I used to get easily cut by people's words. They used to cut me like daggers and I would cry a lot. I wish I could get a hold of myself but I just kept crying out of sadness. I felt like people were taking away my self-worth and my dignity with all these words. It made me really sad and I cried numerous times. I don't want to be like that person anymore and have not since a few years ago.

I am not going to let people take control of my life anymore. I believe that the power is in my own hands and that everyone is able to take control of their own no matter what happens. Nobody can do you harm and this will be my mantra for now.

[kaliope]

that is a great attitude to take. congratulations. don't let others control your destiny. another good mantra is "its not about me". when others are hurtful, it is usually about them, not being able to deal with their own stuff so they are lashing out at others. it is about them. so when they do something hurtful to you, you can say its not about me and let it roll off your back. good luck.

Originally Posted by kaliope

that is a great attitude to take. congratulations. don't let others control your destiny. another good mantra is "its not about me". when others are hurtful, it is usually about them, not being able to deal with their own stuff so they are lashing out at others. it is about them. so when they do something hurtful to you, you can say its not about me and let it roll off your back. good luck.

yeah usually. they feel like by doing so they can make themselves better but really they're inviting insults, nasty remarks from others.

[Agonizing]

Just live for yourself. Don't care about anyone else and your life will be much better.