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Aug 17, 2013, 07:09 AM
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I have a lot of loss (and abandonment) issues. All goodbyes hurt if we've cared about someone... But if they are abrupt and I don't get an opportunity to say how I'm feeling, then they hurt more. This has happened to me with a therapist and with a couple of good friends I cared about. I know it's most likely not about me as much as its about their "stuff" it just really hurts when it's someone I was starting to trust (like a friend IRL who I thought I was getting to know and who I thought cared about me.. I (or part of me) goes back to feeling worthless and that I deserved to be mistreated and hurt
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Aug 17, 2013, 09:23 AM
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I'm the EXACT same way Fuzzybear.
The one thing that I've really noticed from all the homework my T has me doing... is how often "I'm worthless" ends up in my lists of how I feel in regards to situations. I think it's actually in EVERY single one of them so far. Even though I can list off and believe quite a few good things about me... at the end of the day I feel like I'm utterly worthless to everyone else. I don't really know how to change it, because I already self-correct my thoughts!
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