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Oct 02, 2013, 05:07 PM
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all I'm going to feel is rejected and undesirable? Why? Why? God I just want to be wanted. Haha. Okay I'm sure I'll regret posting this, but this is where I am at this moment...THIS EMOTION...Rejected, Unwanted, Lonely, did I mention rejected? I just need to be held so badly. Sorry that was TMI.
How do you cope with this particular feeling without going completely down even further? I seriously am getting sick of this whole cycle. I'm lonely, no one wants to approach me. I know...I'm the guy. I've been 10 weeks out of a relationshiop. I iknow I'm probably not in a good place to be in one. But I'm so lonely. I have no one, no one to come home to. God this is pathetic. Oh, there I go again...sorry. Like I said I'll probably regret posting this. But I just relly don't care anymore. I'm just so done with coping with this,. So sorry to vent, I'm just really hurting. |
 HealingNSuffering, kirby777, Poppy Princess, redbandit, Silent_Efforts
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Oct 02, 2013, 05:35 PM
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I've coped with that feeling for 5 years now. Time dulls the pain, but never gets rid of it completely. I can relate 100% to everything you posted here, I have not much advice on how to cope with it except hang in there! You're not alone in your loneliness. There is other lonely people out there to. My T and I agree I'm still not in a good place to even try to get into a relationship at this point, they send my MH spiraling out of control, so demanding, triggering and anxiety provoking for me. Take your time finding a new partner, so you can find somebody who appreciates you for you. Give yourself some time to heal, healthy people attract healthy partners!
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Oct 02, 2013, 11:09 PM
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Thnaks for the hug and these words. I'm so sorry you've coped with this for a while now. I'm working with it tonight. Guess it was really bad earlier. Got it under control now. Haha. Yeah, it's one day at a time, right? And I totally agree with this:
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Oct 03, 2013, 12:42 AM
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I know how hard it can be when a relationship comes to an end. Hang in there
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In a season of suffering, we may question God's intentions. But sometimes His plans for deliverance are greater than our desire for relief -anonymous 
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