[Lauseta]

... about my son marriage : he is married for the past 7 years, no children. I just learned accidentally that my DIL has a second job as "ecdysiat-choregrapher" un bad night-clkub of the town. She is doing it under an assumed name. My son said he knows about that and he does not like that, but he cannot stop her for doing it.
I have a feeling everything is falling apart.
What can I do ?

[Travelinglady]

Hello and welcome to Psych Central! I can understand your worry. It doesn't sound like your son and his wife are communicating very well, and it's sad that she is working somewhere undesireable against your son's wishes.

However, that said, I don't know that you are in a position to get right in the middle of things. It's up to your son to deal with the situation. I suppose you could just express your concern and say, "If there's anything I can do that might help, then please let me know." He is a grown man after all.

And I'm one to talk, since I am a big worrier, but please try not to worry too much. If you are a praying person, then you can pray about it. But if we can't do anything about a situation, then worry is not going to help them or us. Hang in here! Okay?