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Old Dec 08, 2013, 02:19 AM
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2 boys that are friends..

1st boy- used to like me. Hates me now. Tells me how he punched another guy because he was so mad at me. Promised he'll never hit me, but that I piss him off and annoy him so much. And all these other wonderful things.

2nd boy- has a slightly abusive father. Never really been close friends with him. Always thought he was sweet.

Story:
Invited both of them and a boy I used to like over to watch a chill movie hang out night.
Boys kept talking so I told them to be quiet.
Then they kept talking so I gave up and enjoyed the movie trying to ignore them.
The boy i used to like was talking a lot.
2nd boy says "Why don't you tell him to be quiet? why does he get special treatment?"
Then he kept going on and on and started to get really rude and I wasn't sure how to respond considering I didn't really know him. So i just looked at my phone and tried not to cry because he was getting really mad and rude and i'm just a little girl at heart and don't like when men get angry.
I had my feet up on a chair.
He leaned really close and just stared at me with this glare that made my heart sink.
Then he ripped off my shoe in an angry manner and threw it on the floor really hard and stormed out and left.
I was so scared in my own home.
None of the boys did anything.
And I felt so trapped and alone and scared and hurt.
There's something about someone bigger than me getting so angry and violent that shakes me up in a way I can't explain.
If it was a girl i wouldn't care as much.. but I just hated feeling so scared.
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Old Dec 08, 2013, 02:47 PM
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You need to stay away from him at all times. He is toxic and full of rage,
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Old Dec 08, 2013, 02:49 PM
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Stay away. Best advice you can get.

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Old Dec 08, 2013, 09:19 PM
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I know.. It's just difficult because both of those guys are really confusing they do stuff like that but then they explain it in such a way that makes sense when i'm with them and I feel dumb but then when I really think about it again I realize they're messing with my brain and it wasn't ok.. BUT UGH. Confusion.
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Old Dec 09, 2013, 12:52 PM
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It was not okay. Protect yourself: Stay away from him.
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Old Dec 09, 2013, 10:19 PM
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It was not okay. Protect yourself: Stay away from him.
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Old Dec 10, 2013, 12:16 PM
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I know.. It's just difficult because both of those guys are really confusing they do stuff like that but then they explain it in such a way that makes sense when i'm with them and I feel dumb but then when I really think about it again I realize they're messing with my brain and it wasn't ok.. BUT UGH. Confusion.
Sorry to hear! It sounds like you care for them both! It obviously wasn't okay! Just find better guys, then you won't be interested in them anymore! All the best!
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Old Dec 10, 2013, 12:42 PM
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What are you doing inviting 3 boys into your home at the same time while being alone other than with them....that is putting yourself is a very dangerous position......think before you act....there are always consequences......I would stay away from them all as they are acting like immature children.

You say you are young at heart.....are you young at age also?......learning how to act with your wise mind & not put yourself into situations like that in the future would be a very good idea.
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Old Dec 10, 2013, 01:41 PM
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My thought is that actions speak louder than words. If you don't like the boys actions, distance yourself; it does seem there is some pent up anger there.
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Old Dec 11, 2013, 11:10 PM
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What are you doing inviting 3 boys into your home at the same time while being alone other than with them....that is putting yourself is a very dangerous position......think before you act....there are always consequences......I would stay away from them all as they are acting like immature children.

You say you are young at heart.....are you young at age also?......learning how to act with your wise mind & not put yourself into situations like that in the future would be a very good idea.
Well they were all close friends. And my parents were home. It's not like I didn't trust them. I'm 18.
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