[nycgal448]

OMG!!! I am soo irrate right now, it's crazy. I have never wanted to
bring this much harm and pain to somebody ,than I do right now!!
My ex and I were fighting, and he referred to my 5 yr old AUTISTIC
son, RETARDED. I wuz in such shock, that he ever had the capacity
to ever say something like that, about anyone w a disability, let
alone a little boy. We were texting, so he didnt hear sobs, but I
blasted the hell outta him. He is Bi polar too... NO EXCUSE.
I left him alone w his "short comings". The impulse I have at
this moment to do something soooo evil is insane. In the end
I left him w the nicest comment I could say, I hope he lives the
rest of his worthless life alone and miserable.I wuz sooo good
to him, he wuz a king. He def did not deserve me. I am still
reeling. PPL are so horrible.. just my naivate kicking in.

[BadGirlBlues]

I am so sorry he turned out to be such a jerk! At least you found out now instead of later, you and your precious son deserve so much better.

[kala83]

I agree anyone who is that judgemental or misunderstanding to a mental illness is not really worth your time.....

my friends are not always very understanding to me having mental health issues but they don't go that far.

[gayleggg]

Ex's can be such jerks. Mine told my daughter she should "get away from me before she became a mental cripple, too". I don't know what makes someone want to say such hurtful things. I'm glad he is out of your life.

[nycgal448]

I think he is using again, I am worried, even tho he has been extremely
nasty, hurtful and somewhat verbally abusive. It's unlike him to act like
that at all... no matter who annoyed him. He is Bi polar too, and is not
good w dealing w his issues, one of them is me. He has a tendency to
run. However, despite all his short comings, I do still love and care for
him, bc I know the "real" him. I am sad..

[SilverNeurotic]

I'm sorry that you had to have this conversation, that was brutal. I'm glad that you are no longer with this man. Mentally I'll or not, there is absolutely no excuse for that sort of language. I think you handled everything perfectly. Any chance if cutting him out if your life? If you can, if it's feasible that is the best thing for you and your amazing son. You don't need that toxicity in your life.

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[nycgal448]

Because of what he called my son, my concern is diminishing.
I told him I will never forgive him for that. I called him a sad,bitter
miserable man. Drugs or no drugs.

[Switch]

R-word | Spread the Word to End the Word
If you google "the r word" there is also a really awesome Psa video.

Though you might like knowing your so far from the only one who thinks this is not okay. What he said was wrong on so many levels.

[nycgal448]

Yep, He is quite the Loser.