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#1
Apr 05, 2014, 04:36 AM
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The only friend I had just abandoned me. I want to die. What the **** do I do?
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 Atypical_Disaster, BLUEDOVE, Fuzzybear, Open Eyes, PeachCream22, Pikku Myy, sadp8r, Stronger, trying2survive
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#2
Apr 05, 2014, 11:07 AM
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....Continue on...why not?
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| sadp8r
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#3
Apr 05, 2014, 11:45 AM
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If it's serious you should go see a therapist who could help you cope with everything.
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#4
Apr 05, 2014, 11:48 AM
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The only friend I had abandoned me and I never can talk to her again. What else is there to know?
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| sadp8r
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#5
Apr 05, 2014, 11:55 AM
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#6
Apr 05, 2014, 12:14 PM
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They'll just abandon me too. And I despise myself and can't stand being alone, so that won't work.
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| PeachCream22, sadp8r
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#7
Apr 06, 2014, 12:40 PM
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please help me.
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| sadp8r
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#8
Apr 06, 2014, 01:44 PM
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Hey, I'm here. Talk to me and or us. Let us be your support until real life people realize that you need someone.
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| sadp8r
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#9
Apr 06, 2014, 01:52 PM
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__________________
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| sadp8r
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#10
Apr 06, 2014, 02:34 PM
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I have nothing to live for. And I know anybody else I'll ever get close to will just abandon me too. So what the **** do i Have to live for?
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| sadp8r, smmath
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#11
Apr 06, 2014, 02:49 PM
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We are not those people who hurt you. Let us try and support you. Have faith that there are good people out there that will be there for you. Your life matters and NO ONE wants you to be hurt or to leave us. Keep talking to us.
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| sadp8r
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#12
Apr 06, 2014, 03:11 PM
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I saw Your heading and felt I needed to write ....several times in my life (tho I'm not sure what You're going through)...I wanted to die ...twice came close overdosing...once the overdose caused me to have seizures..ended up in ICU...several months later I had some kind of attack...while in the hospital...I passed out n hit my head on floor..woke up in emergency room where I was told I had another seizure when I hit the floor...drs told me I couldn't work...in recovery for depression for 10 years I tried ...learned about my illness...getting right meds..in 2010 I started volunteering at a skilled nursing facility even worked there for a year...til last May after losing so many residents...I realized how lonely I was all these years asking girls out getting rejected for being TOO NICE...last June I overdosed again...ended up in ICU...I hate going out nowadays especially in warmer weather seeing couples together I realize how lonely I am...I joined PC last may...and all at PC gives me strentgh...whether I'm down or up...we understand even tho our diagnosis are different n our situations are different my PC friends understand...so I stay strong in the hopes that enthroned times I am feeling better I could help another on PC the way they all help me when I'm down...I'm not gona lie and say tomorrow will be a better day...but I will say we don't know what tomorrow will bring ...right now I'm my life tho not severely depressed...I'm feeling that loneliness again...its not my isolation that is the reason of my loneliness ...my loneliness is the reason I isolate...but I fight cuz I refuse to give in...I hope You didn't mind me writing a book...I just want to say whatever You're going through today...here on PC we understand ..please don't give up...ok
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#13
Apr 06, 2014, 03:11 PM
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I can't trust anybody. Even people on here and on similar sites have hurt me. I don't know what else to say. I just have never been helped by somebody without them later abandoning me and negating any good thing they did.
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| sadp8r
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#14
Apr 06, 2014, 03:41 PM
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Often when we feel as though people are abandoning us, it is because we are pushing them away.
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| sadp8r
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#15
Apr 06, 2014, 04:10 PM
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Then what do I do?
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| sadp8r
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Apr 06, 2014, 08:19 PM
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please help me.
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| sadp8r, smmath
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#17
Apr 06, 2014, 08:32 PM
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You need to let us try to help you first.
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| sadp8r
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Apr 06, 2014, 08:41 PM
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How do I do that?
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| sadp8r
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#19
Apr 06, 2014, 08:45 PM
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By opening up and talking to us. What is making you want to end it?
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| sadp8r
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#20
Apr 06, 2014, 09:03 PM
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yeah theres 7 billion or how many other people on earth but thats not the point, like u said u lost ur only friend. i dont know how along ago this was, i just joined, but honestly perhaps get closer to your parents, siblings? and as stupid as this sounds, get closer with yourself. idk if anything i can be a friend to you, i dont have many either, and we are all here to support each other i hope :P i joined thin,king so
Last edited by sabby; Apr 06, 2014 at 09:32 PM. Reason: administrative edit to bring within guidelines |
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#21
Apr 06, 2014, 10:24 PM
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Watch a movie, read a book, listen to music, go for a walk, smoke.... anything. Just distract yourself from yourself.
I don't have any close friends either. I guess we've just got to keep trying until it happens. |
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#22
Apr 06, 2014, 11:20 PM
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Do you think that you could learn to love the solitude until something changes?
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#23
Apr 11, 2014, 02:18 PM
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Most of my friends have done that to. (I also have the same mindset as you), but I'm here (not necessarily happy), but I like doing art, playing video games, and playing with my cats. Small things make me happy, especially when no one really likes me...
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#24
Apr 13, 2014, 01:29 PM
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As memory serves me correct, you may still be obsessing about writing your book about Amanda Knox. It may sound harsh, but you cannot do anything for her and yet you keep focusing your thoughts on her. You really have to take care of yourself and maybe a therapist can help out with your obsession. Amanda Knox has to get on with her life and so do you, and you owe it to yourself to get the help you need.
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May 01, 2014, 07:40 AM
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