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I went to visit family but why I bother just make my emotions run and anger sets in and before it gets put of hand had to leave their house I can't handle them they treat me like I am no good and all others are perfect and ready to give up on them for good ...
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Hello, flowerpetal. Sorry this happened.
I wish you well. |
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Hey sweetie. I kinda know how that feels, my family, especially at gatherings, often pretends that I'm not even there. It even happens at my own birthday, my sister often the star of the show.
However, if you can't talk to them about it, if you can get through, it's perhaps just best to give them up. |
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Family does not always know how to behave. I could be the President of the United States and they would still treat me like I have no value. I know better. I do not have to define myself through them...or spend time with them.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany “Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge |
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Hello Flowerpetal,
I get this kind of treatment from my parents, brother and some relatives. I have chosen to stay away from them because of being tired of ill treatment and verbal emotional abuse. If they can't give me respect, acknowledgement, understanding, support, and love... then they can stay away from me for good. I'm sorry you are going through stressful things with your family. I hope everything works out for the better. There are a lot of good books out there that helped me make my decision on what to do. ![]() ~Soulflower~ |
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