[kala83]

I just yelled at for by my mother for telling her that I was not going to return mail to a friend of mine I have cut out of my life.

this person treated me like utter crud.

and I just had another person I thought was my friend cut me out of my life recently as well.

I do not feel like I am being an asshole as so she puts it by not wanting to be around these people.....

these people do not have issues with taking their problems and making them turn physical....or verbal at all.

I do not want to be around these people....and I don't like the fact their stuff keeps showing up on my door step.
I feel like a complete fool for letting them live in my house and take complete advantage of me.

then my mom has the nerve to tell me that my boyfriend using the credit card....for a small lunch is out of line.

this girl...that I am getting mail for used us both for money on that card to claiming she would pay us back..and she never did...

my boyfriend on the other hand has paid her a lot of money back for money he has borrowed something these to Jerks of friends never did for me or her at all.

I am no saint my self but I refuse completely to feel like I am in thew wrong for any of this in the least.

the last time I was near their place I had a huge panic attack.

Not that I think this really matters to my mother.

[sabby]

All you have to do is take all the mail that is delivered at your house for your friend, tie it together with a note for the postman that says, "Return to Sender: No Longer At This Address". They will then send it back to the sender. You don't have to see that person or go anywhere near them.