[Jenni855]

And then become indifferent and uncaring the next?

[Thunder Bow]

Look at the whole. People moods change all the time. Or they were always uncaring, and now it shows when the chips are down.

[Jenni855]

Yes, it just saddens me how fickle and shallow the feelings really are.

I've thought about this a lot myself in the past. I think feelings can be very deep and meaningful, but maybe people themselves change from one moment to the next, along with whatever feelings they had.

Of course, it can be hard to read other people's emotions. Some really don't care as much as they seem to. Some care more than they show.

[Jenni855]

Yes I think you are right there. Wish you could tell straight off which was which. Would save a lot of heartache in the long run

I know! It seems like the kindest people mostly consist of those who pretend to care, with truly nice people taking up the last %5.

[Jenni855]

Too right, it feels heavy on my heart when I think of it.

[sprik]

I was with my ex for millions of yrs, were divorce now, YEAH, first guy in 4 yrs I had feelings for. One step forward, 10 steps back. I think he has broken my heart more than my ex did. Now I'm drama. lol

[maxthorton]

Originally Posted by Jenni855

And then become indifferent and uncaring the next?

its how love works. it gets inspired we feel it it goes away. if its strong enough we never forget that it exists within us and we work by the defitnion of being in love if not by the feeling

[waterscollide]

I must agree. Emotions change sometimes like the wind and nobody can actually control that. Hurts like hell, true.