My emotions i have to deal with this period of my sucked life are failed,useless,loneliness,desperation,helpless,antisocial behavior,loneliness,insecurity,negativity,depression,sadness, self esteem feelings and low confindence in my self.I think everything i am going to try or start will fail in the middle and i will give it up dissapointed and angry for the failure.

I am 27 years old and i haven't succeed nowhere in my whole life,i failed in friendships,10 years i am alone cause everyone i knew abandoned me,i failed in relationships,10 years and i haven't done yet my first relationship with a woman,i failed to every studies my parents paid for me,failed to take a degree,i have never worked nowhere so my parents calling me lazy,i have drive license but i never took our car to drive,i never gone holidays,vacation cause i was always alone,no fun,nothing at all.

What's really going on here,i have stuck so badly in a serious deadlock i can't find how to get away from this situation,this is ridiculous,i can criticize and blame my self for hours,what mistakes i did or what decisions i could take to change things and i don't.

I failed so bad,i compare what other people have done to their lives in the same age with me and i feel so stupid i wasted almost 10 whole years after finished school,of having NO LIFE,surrendered to a fate,closed in my room with a pc and nothing more,sleeping,eating,pc,music,no communication with parents enough,everyday the same routine day and lately i have hair loss but i haven't the money to make a therapy.

This life has no future,is doomed to failing everyday again and again.

[Fuzzybear]

Hi there, you've reached out here and that's a good start. I suggest spending less time on the computer and more time studying... Anything you're interested in. You'd be doing this for yourself and so there's no "failure". It sounds like your parents care about you which is great (many here including me were completely on their own at too young an age.. Thrown out of the nest like rubbish).

I hear your pain and frustration, don't give up.. Everyone has something they are good at. Maybe helping those less fortunate will be your calling. Just keep trying new things and you'll find something that interests you. Have you spoken to a doctor about your depression? When we're depressed nothing feels fulfilling.

I hope some of this has helped! Good luck

[Schneizel]

I hear you man, I've been going through that aswell, wish i could find solution, and worst thing is some people take advantage of your emotions and manipulate you...wish i can help anyone...but just know you're not alone...

Originally Posted by Fuzzybear

I hear your pain and frustration, don't give up.. Everyone has something they are good at. Maybe helping those less fortunate will be your calling. Just keep trying new things and you'll find something that interests you. Have you spoken to a doctor about your depression? When we're depressed nothing feels fulfilling.

I hope some of this has helped! Good luck

Hi,the negative is that i have already gave up,not now,but many years ago,accepted my own destiny/fate as useless and failed/wasted,just crying for what i lost in my best period of my life that i never lived.This cannot be replaced now,its lost years.I have spoke a little to a docter but then stopped..

Originally Posted by Schneizel

I hear you man, I've been going through that aswell, wish i could find solution, and worst thing is some people take advantage of your emotions and manipulate you...wish i can help anyone...but just know you're not alone...

Thanx for your time,it's not easy to giving attention to everybody in a big forum with many people with different problems.Sometimes i feel i can't do nothing in this life,like its over all around me,if i could try to win my fears...

Give me an orientation,a guidance,something i can do alone to improve my negative emotions,to heal my thoughts,an escape from the misery.I am in big stalemate for 8 years. It's life coaching a solution?

No money for therapies,doctors,online psychology support with payment etc,no free phone psychology lines from phone,clinics etc,i don't trust them.

[PianogirlPlays]

In my suffering I find some helpfulness seeking some encouraging words on my computer.

[Bill3]

i have never worked nowhere so my parents calling me lazy

Would you be willing to say more about whether or not you have jobs and how they worked out?

I don't think i am lazy,i am just afraid something i never tried before and its uknown to me and of course that i will screw it up.Prejudiced negative i will fail in everything i am going to try.

When your parents see you doing nothing all day everyday 8 years continuous ,not having interestings,motivation for succeed,no friends etc,its easy to believe you are a stupid lazy who just spending their money for food,sleep and nothing more.

Anyone who had feelings of failure and useless? How you overcomed these obstacles?What you did?