[troy110]

Hey all.
so here it starts.. the thing goes like this;
we both attended same school but were never been so close but after school we came towards friendship and now after 2 years, we are best friends. it started when i posted a sad status and she asked me to share my grievance..
previously we use to chat in 15-20 days then afterwards the gaps got reduced any as a matter of time, now we use to chat daily at night for hours, sharing everything of every sort of.
now here comes my confusion/doubt that when she is around/on chat , it fills utter happiness in me and when she isn't around, urge to talk to her goes to heights and it makes me somewhat,, restless.
she too loves me as a bestie and do care for me very much
and if by chance we had a gap in our usual talk, it makes me more restless and i feel lonely afterwards.

what's this? i know that she isn't going anywhere leaving me behind but thn also why my soul becomes so restless in it's own when she isn't around?

P.S.: We both are single but doesn't have that type of feelings for each other.

[kaliope]

hi troy
it could be that if you don't have other friends or activities in your life, that you simply miss the good feelings you have when you are talking to her when she isn't available and that is what is causing this restlessness. you may also want to consider that you have deeper feelings for her. welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome

[troy110]

Thanx dear Kaliope..
yup i do understand now that i have developed deeper feelings for her, not in other way.. but as a bestie only "