Im not a morning person. I'm sensitive in the morning before I have a magically brewed substance I call love in a cup. Or coffee. Anyway, When someone says they are going to do something and its been decided the night before, I get miffed that it hasn't happened and so I am now a freaking babysitter. This person is seriously surprised that I'm p!ssed off that first thing the a.m., my gentle reminder is greeted with insults and overall a-holeishness. Bottom line: do what you say you're going to do or don't say it at all in the first place...geez.

I think its a perfectly acceptable rant. I am not a morning person either. Hell i'm not a people person. And nothing is more annoying that people sho say they will do something and don't. and a lot of times, its in the most inconvenient manner.

[izzy08]

Originally Posted by KaraD

Im not a morning person. I'm sensitive in the morning before I have a magically brewed substance I call love in a cup. Or coffee. Anyway, When someone says they are going to do something and its been decided the night before, I get miffed that it hasn't happened and so I am now a freaking babysitter. This person is seriously surprised that I'm p!ssed off that first thing the a.m., my gentle reminder is greeted with insults and overall a-holeishness. Bottom line: do what you say you're going to do or don't say it at all in the first place...geez.

Mornings can be rough, I need a cup of coffee before I walk out of my house. I can not stand when people can not commit or tell me that they will do something and will not do it. It is annoying but that is something you will have to encounter. Hopefully you will have a better morning!

[danvb]

...consider it to be just another one of life's little challenges.

It really is OK to feel irritated by something like that, but try to keep your powder dry. Tell them that it's on you this time, but you won't believe them anymore if they make another commitment they don't follow through on.

If it happens again, it's your turn to follow up with your commitment to not believe them anymore and then go about your own business.

Trust is a funny thing. Once it's broken, it takes a lot to get it back.

And that's all I have to say about THAT!

I do get that its "one of those things" but I had more than enough going on at the time. I have since "built a bridge and got over it." It was just annoying.

[PianogirlPlays]

Originally Posted by danvb

...consider it to be just another one of life's little challenges.

It really is OK to feel irritated by something like that, but try to keep your powder dry. Tell them that it's on you this time, but you won't believe them anymore if they make another commitment they don't follow through on.

If it happens again, it's your turn to follow up with your commitment to not believe them anymore and then go about your own business.

Trust is a funny thing. Once it's broken, it takes a lot to get it back.

And that's all I have to say about THAT!

Sounds. Like a good plan.

[~Christina]

I am so not a morning person , never have been never will and I am okay about it. If someone needs wants plans anything in the AM it really better be damn important and I fully agree to it ..

I have Severe Chronic pain , It takes me time to get moving in the am. I just feel better as a nite owl.

Im sorry things played out as they did. Live and learn.

I am a full believer that if coffee wasn't invented there would be alot more violence in the world

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