[tiredofhurt]

Im sick of the tears as Iam in a long distance relationship. We live two and a half hours away in the same state and I havent seen him in two weeks, well tonite he went drinking and called me a ***** and a slut when I was at home alone. Then he said I owed him the money I borrowed or Id go to jail and now I cant sleep and Im struggling, but I love him but Im tired of the tears HELP

[connect.the.stars]

Hi tiredofhurt,

I'm sorry you are feeling this way. Does your boyfriend normally use such derogatory language? If he does, I'm not sure if this is a healthy relationship for you.

How much money do you owe him? And what was it borrowed for? I'm concerned for your safety and it sounds like he could use this debt as a way to blackmail you.

I know you are attached to him, but there are some warning signs that indicate he might not be right for you. He might make up some convincing excuses for not seeing you for two weeks, but if someone truly matters to you, you make time for them, no? From what you have written, it doesn't sound like he really cares about you.

I want to emphasize that you should try to settle the debt ASAP. Are you working or old enough to look for a part time job?

Gentle hugs

[Cris80pitt]

Originally Posted by tiredofhurt

Im sick of the tears as Iam in a long distance relationship. We live two and a half hours away in the same state and I havent seen him in two weeks, well tonite he went drinking and called me a ***** and a slut when I was at home alone. Then he said I owed him the money I borrowed or Id go to jail and now I cant sleep and Im struggling, but I love him but Im tired of the tears HELP

First of all, you owe him money? What?You have some kind of contract and he can ask you to give him money back? If not he cannot do anything to you. Second, how can you love such a person? He is rude and acts terribly. Leave him and find some good guy who lives close to you and will treat you better. He is not worth of one tear.