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Mar 29, 2015, 04:09 PM
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Hi I met this new friend a while back this year in school ,I really like him and he is honestly is my best friend its only about 3 months of school left ,and I would like to hang out with him but I feel hopeless and that I am afraid to ask him ,I am really going to miss him this summer ,what is causing this feeling of hopeless
Please also pray for me that I be able to hang out durning the summer with him |
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Mar 29, 2015, 04:18 PM
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The feeling of hopeless is probably the fear of rejection. Everyone has it, its normal but whenever I got myself in situations like that I would always ask myself "Am I going to regret this later in life?"
That normally gave me the courage to do alot.
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Mar 29, 2015, 06:01 PM
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If you don't do anything, you will have a 'no' for sure.
If you do something, your possibilities increase 50%. I wish you good luck!
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Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits. Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance. Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON) |
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Mar 30, 2015, 12:08 AM
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I think the "Will I regret this later in life?" question is a really good one. Will you regret not asking your friend to hang out in the summer? Probably. So ask him if he wants to hang out. It's not a weird thing to do or anything. The worst thing that can happen is he says no, but it sounds like you're already friends, so I don't see why he would say no unless he's going to be gone all summer or something.
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Mar 30, 2015, 03:41 PM
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Okay I saw him today but did not ask him ,I do not know what to say ,We both like magic cards ,should I take him to a show about magic ?
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Mar 30, 2015, 06:12 PM
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Have you hanged out with him as friends before?
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Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits. Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance. Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON) |
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#7
Mar 31, 2015, 05:11 AM
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No we have not hung out with friends
I would like to hang out with him as a friend |
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#8
Apr 02, 2015, 02:52 PM
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Ask him directly, no detours. It is an easy habit to start.
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Apr 02, 2015, 05:33 PM
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Detour, everyone are here waiting for you to tell us good new about this guy.
Suggest him to go to the cinema bc you saw a movie you would like to watch or whatever this guy may like. Begin like a friend. Don't go fast. Follow your guts. I will really crossing my fingers for you. |
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Apr 02, 2015, 05:37 PM
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He is my best friend. He likes magic cards and I do too Should I find a magic show and take them there |
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Apr 02, 2015, 05:53 PM
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Forgive me, detour. I missunderstood you.
Like I always have problems to connect with people on the oppossite sex, i thought you also have the same problem. Sorry, a transference problem. Mouth shut up. 
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