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Leave and get help 11 100.00%
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Old Jun 15, 2015, 08:46 PM
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I'm severely depressed because of my boyfriend. He makes me feel like I am nothing to him. He goes out and lately hasn't been coming home at night. I'm pretty sure he's doing drugs again since he doesn't have any friends that don't do drugs. What do I do? I just want him to love me like before and not be pushed away.
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Old Jun 16, 2015, 09:01 AM
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I would vote for "get help" if you have access to that. It sounds like you could really benefit from talking to a counselor or therapist.

Without knowing more about your economic situation and the history of your relationship with your boyfriend, I don't feel comfortable saying "stay" or "go".
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Old Jun 16, 2015, 10:59 AM
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I agree that seeing a therapist even if only you go would be beneficial. If he is doing drugs again there isn't anything you can do to change it unless he's willing. An objective opinion could certainly help you through deciding what you need to do.

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Old Jun 25, 2015, 05:28 AM
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Do you live together? Not coming home at night is a deal breaker regardless what he is doing ( unless at work of course)

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Old Jun 25, 2015, 10:20 PM
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In my own point of view, you love him very much and you don't want to leave him. I suggest that you leave him. It hurts but he does not love you back so what's the point. Give yourself a break. You deserve one.
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