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Old Oct 04, 2015, 02:02 AM
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I can't help but feel that its hopeless for me. I feel like nobody cares about me because I am worthless, useless and have no life. I have no friends.... nobody to talk to..I feel no one cares because they see me as a fat disgusting blobby greaseball. I mean, the one friend I thought I had wont acknowledge me on facebook.....its all so dismal when your whole world is inside your home most days.

Forget me finding love either.....no one even wants to associate with me, just because I am fat, let alone date me. I am just utterly hopeless. I see people around me, cousins getting married and having kids....and to me its a measure of self worth to be able to have a social life. Its not fair!!!!!,
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Old Oct 04, 2015, 02:07 AM
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Old Oct 04, 2015, 02:11 AM
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It hurts so bad......I just want an actual real life hug.

What do you do when you dont even belong in this world?
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Old Oct 04, 2015, 05:31 AM
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i know how you feel, maybe some consolation is that you're not the only one this is happening to - i know, not much of a consolation!

i haven't had a hug for God knows how many years, no real friends either. only work and gym. literally nothing and nobody else.

no choice but to get on with it and maybe keep some hope that it will change. sorry bud, hopefully lightning strikes and things change for people like us!
but loneliness really is a slow death, i hate it so much.
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Old Oct 04, 2015, 05:56 AM
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God....I am pissed off. I cant sleep cause my brother and his gf are making a huge racket. My head hurts and I need sleep.

ETA: OMG, turns out the thumping was the screen porch door blowing in the wind. I feel bad now.
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Old Oct 04, 2015, 06:47 AM
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Hope things get better for you and you have a better day ahead!
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Old Oct 04, 2015, 07:40 PM
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I am so sorry. I do like your sense of humor btw. I think you are hilarious and you have great writing abilities. Did anything come out of that group you wAnted to join?

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Old Oct 05, 2015, 04:28 AM
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Old Oct 05, 2015, 04:29 AM
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Old Oct 05, 2015, 09:48 PM
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You start by changing the things you think are holding you back. You mentioned that you are fat. Okay so what are you doing about that? Are you eating healthier, exercising, taking vitamins? How are you working to better yourself?

Just from your post I see that you have a negative attitude. How many people do you see hanging out with Winnie the Pooh vs. Eyore? You are the the Eyore in that statement.

People don't like to be with complainers. They avoid them because their attitudes are toxic. People like to be with achievers, doers, happy, friendly, active, people.

Start by looking within yourself. That is what needs to change, not the world around you.
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Old Oct 06, 2015, 02:17 PM
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The worse thing you can do is compare yourself to others. Stop judging yourself, and seek to understand yourself. A Therapist can help you do that.
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