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Nov 14, 2015, 11:16 PM
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I am so hurt right now... I am shocked and stunned. I had been going to this salsa dancing group hosted by this guy. I was really enjoying it. I didn't go to the bachata class, apparently I didn't need to... I was tagged in his post... it's a clip of a girl who is not me dressed in skanky clothes feeling his cock while they are dancing together. According to the post, it's me. I am really, really hurt. I had since left the group on fb, unfriended him, and I will not go to those classes again. I feel hurt. I feel betrayed .I feel like there is absolutely no place for me here on this earth. I realize this should probably be a journal entry and not a forum thread, but I am so hurt I need to know that other people think this is not okay. I need to know that I have good reason to feel this way. I need to know that someone out there is on my side. I need to know all that, or I will go.
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Nov 15, 2015, 12:03 AM
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Omg that is unacceptable. Is he your dance teacher? I'd demand my money back. What a jerk
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Nov 15, 2015, 03:24 PM
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I don't blame you one bit for being upset. I would be too.
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Nov 15, 2015, 03:33 PM
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Is this guy your instructor or your boyfriend? Either way you have plenty of reason to be upset. I have no earthly idea why anyone would want to post something like that much less lie about who it was (that's why I asked about the boyfriend thing). Please don't beat yourself up for being upset - you have a right to your emotions, this is a very valid emotion. May I ask why you would question it as not being a valid emotion?
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Nov 15, 2015, 08:58 PM
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First let me say that whether you choose to put these feelings in a journal or not, they are welcome here! PC exists for this very purpose - so people can confide in and support each other.
Second, what he did is absolutely not ok, and you shouldn't feel like you are wrong for being upset. That said, is it possible he made a mistake? That seems unlikely to me, but maybe you should talk to him. Either way, if you tell him it upset you, he may be more careful not to hurt you or others like this in the future. However, I'm the kind of person who would have done the same thing as you - I would feel betrayed, unfriend him, and avoid him. There are some things that are so hurtful that "making up" may be impossible. I have lost a few friends this way but ultimately don't regret it because they were toxic friends anyway. One last thing. Saw you're in Fort Collins - I'm in Denver. If you were a little closer I'd drag you to La Rumba! I love salsa.  But alas, you're just a little too far away.  If you're ever in Denver though, feel free to PM me.
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Nov 16, 2015, 10:45 AM
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You are right. I would feel the same way! I would feel unsafe!
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Nov 16, 2015, 10:56 AM
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This is deplorable.
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Nov 16, 2015, 04:04 PM
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