[dwfieldjr]

The only person in this world that I can say I care about isn't answering my text or my phone calls. Her husband is deployed to Germany right now and she is left with the kids. I think that di$$head is having the time of his life in Europe.

I upset my sister last month when I told her I was thinking about coming to Georgia to visit for my twin nieces birthday. She said she was thinking about visiting her friend in Florida during that time. I told her if that's something she would rather do than its no big deal.

I guess she thought I snapped at her and hung up the phone on me. Later under my ts advice I texted her to let her know I was sorry the conversation went so badly she responded back, but I haven't herd from since.

Ever since I got back from the army in 2004 she has always been complaining she didn't have enough money for anything. Her husband is always playing some sport and leaving her at home. I know she has problems with anxiety and depression as do I, but she refuses to get help for it.

She went to see a Christian therapist back in 2008 because she was going through a lot of problems. She quit going because she said the company was to much. Every time I see her di&&ahead husband he always has a new toy e.g. Like a Harley Davidson an Xbox one , a wii console.

He always has enough money to play golf and sports on. I swear he loves golf more than anything in this world. Last Christmas when I went to go visit them I didn't even get to see him because he was in the golf range the whole time with his buddy. He showed up for Christmas dinner with his friend and I never saw him after that.

He didn't come out sight seeing with us or Christmas shopping or anything last year. I think she might be going through her own problems and just doesn't want to talk. It's aggravating me because I haven't heard from her in over a month now.

Any thoughts?

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[Skeezyks]

Hello dwfieldjr: We never know what is really going on in other people's minds or within other people's marriages. From what you wrote, it sounds like you did what you can do. About all there is left, it seems to me, is to perhaps send the occasional e-mail, text or greeting card just to let your sister know that you're still here & still interested in maintaining a relationship. Beyond that, the ball is in her court. Good luck...

[ManOfConstantSorrow]

to Georgia to visit for my twin nieces birthday. She said she was thinking about visiting her friend in Florida during that time. I told her if that's something she would rather do than its no big deal. - maybe test the water next time and say, 'oh that sounds nice, when would be a good time for me to come and see you all?' In the meantime send yer nieces a present.