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Jul 10, 2016, 07:24 PM
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Here--this is me providing moral support for the angry, and guilt-tripped: If y u are mad, say at your family, be angry; if you believe they lied, by all means, be furious!
Look--starting with the right premises, all things are true; I may dispute the premises, but I'll at least agree with things as far as they can go, sans afronting reality! Anger is energy that needs expression, and I want to help you do so in a non-angry manner, which won't getcha arrested, and the like, such as myself. Here, I will do for others, what others haven't done for me, and that is testify and step to bat on the behalf of others, honoring them as far as I morally can. You may be angry over yourwife cheating, but if you beat her before hand, I'm not going to be near as sympathetic, of course; on the other hand, if you were beat up yourself as a kid, and have anger issues over that, I'll be more sympathetic. I could write prospective letters to the parent, telling said failure "You're wrong." You're mad at them, and want something they probably won't give, but I at least make you feel ashamed for wanting it! That's what others did to me, but I won't do to others! How can I get started, volunteering counseling? Last edited by Noitartst; Jul 10, 2016 at 08:11 PM. |
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Jul 12, 2016, 03:24 PM
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What are you angry about it? You sound like a passionate person. Is something angering You?
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#3
Jul 12, 2016, 03:57 PM
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Cowardice; learned helplessness (AKA apathy) and more. I just recently seem to have gotten a grip on panic attacks over 23 years, but I'm still trying to regain a sense of control over my life.
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Jul 12, 2016, 04:42 PM
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when you get angry with family they make you feel guilty, or at least mine do
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Jul 18, 2016, 01:08 AM
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Yes I agree 100%
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#6
Jul 18, 2016, 08:18 AM
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This days I have been greatly irritable and have done a great deal of headshaking at things like what you have described.
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#7
Jul 18, 2016, 08:37 AM
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It certainly is okay to be angry!
And it's okay to let those who've made us angry know how we feel about it too ... 1. As long as it isn't going to cause us further harm or endanger us! 2. As long as it isn't going to cause us to harm or endanger someone else! Non-Harmful Solutions: 1. Write a letter and don't send it! 2. What the heck!, go ahead on and write that letter & DO send it! ... If your abusers are anything like mine were, they'll be too cowardly to even respond to it, so eff them on that one too! 3. Go to the batting cages and have at it! ... Imagine that the balls are the faces and/or nutsacks of those who've abused you! 4. Go to the driving range (golf) and have at it! ... Imagine that the balls are the faces and/or nutsacks of those who've abused you! 5. Get some of those blow up punching clowns and place them around your house! ... Knock the snot out of them whenever you walk by while loudly shouting EFF YOU along with the name of those that abused you! Heck! ... I even pfeel better just expressing and sharing all that right here right now! Hope it helps others that are dealing with anger issues too! And, EFF YOU STILL, Parental & Sibling Units! ... May you rot in hell for all the evil @#$%! you did to me! Grrr ... !!! Sincerely, Pfrog! 
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Aug 11, 2016, 11:35 PM
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When I go through life, I need to be able to engage on equal terms, but when people say "forgive," it means "be a pushover." It weighs me down, that sense of inferiority. |
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