I feel really raw and hurt right now after a yet again terrible conversation with my dad. My relationship with my dad is painful. He is an alcoholic. And probably depressed, with diabetes. He has many psychological issues from what I can see, and he refuses to acknowledge it or get help. I live with him and my mom. I'm working on a way to move out. I am on disability, and am not making enough that way to move out right now. But I have been told my disability earnings would go up if I moved out. I am meeting with someone Monday, to discuss this.

[Skeezyks]

Hello starrysky: I'm sorry you're having to remain under such difficult circumstances. Hopefully your meeting Monday will go well...

Thank you Skeezyks.

[Thunder Bow]

Good for you. There are ways to escape that situation. Be creative and keep looking.

[avlady]

you have to be brave and good luck!!

Your disability may even be able to provide funds for the move

I had my appt. with the organization that was helpful for housing. I found out that my disability income will not go up if I move out. Right now, it seems like I will have to get a job or subsidized housing. I might post in the job forum about something. I would actually really like to work, just don't know how ready I am. Today, I have faith that things are going to work out, especially in time, and with perseverance. I am feeling more patient today, as, I think that getting my life together in this way, will take time. Today I am grateful that my parents let me live at their house rent free, and not upset with my dad anymore either. I just try to keep my distance, and be kind. Thank you everyone for the support.

[KristenRenee]

Originally Posted by starrysky

I feel really raw and hurt right now after a yet again terrible conversation with my dad. My relationship with my dad is painful. He is an alcoholic. And probably depressed, with diabetes. He has many psychological issues from what I can see, and he refuses to acknowledge it or get help. I live with him and my mom. I'm working on a way to move out. I am on disability, and am not making enough that way to move out right now. But I have been told my disability earnings would go up if I moved out. I am meeting with someone Monday, to discuss this.

Hi there. I feel for you. I am an alcoholic myself and I know how bad it has been on my family. You might try going to Alanon. That is support for the family or friends of an alcoholic. Good luck.