[LaDauphine]

I think I'm about to have a mid-life crisis. Or something. I don't feel alive, but I don't feel dead, either. I feel like I'm just some... Blob. A basic *****? I don't seem to get emotional about anything. I'm just... here. I remember when I had all of these plans and dreams and ambitions and now I'm in this transition period and I don't know what to do next with my life.

I'm a newlywed. I have a job. I'm about to take some courses so I can get a better job within the same field. I have solo hobbies. I have group hobbies. I have things to plan. I have friends.

I just turned 30 and all of the things I never had to really worry about (credit, paying off loans, looking for a house, etc.) are starting to overwhelm me. I just don't know what to do.

When you say you don't get emotional about things, do you mean excited? It sounds like maybe you are bored? If you have a husband and friends, and hobbies, and a job, but are still feeling blah, I'm probably not the best one to advise. But I've heard of people feeling like something is missing from their life before, like god. Or like just meaning in general. What were your dreams? Credit, paying off loans, and looking for a house sounds stressful to me, and it makes sense to be stressed. It sounds like you've had some changes in your life lately, like getting married, becoming more adult like. And even though these things are positive, they can bring stress. Maybe take it one day at a time. hugs

[~Christina]

When did you last have a physical with full blood work done ?

Could be hormonal or thyroid , vitamin deficiency, practically everyone had low vitamin D levels which can cause depression.

Best to always rule out something physical.

If all checks out okay maybe talking to a Therapist could help you work through your stress over things in your life.

Feel better soon