[Javacat]

Sometimes I wonder if there is something wrong with me. I really like people. I read about being good at talking to people and having good social skills but I always feel that unless they want to sleep with me or are just being nice (you know because it's their job or they are in church) I strike out. Not to say that I can't do people in small doses but I really struggle to make a connection and have had people tell me I'm hard to get to know. I'm so lonely. I read it was easier to meet people online but I haven't seen that. Maybe the city will be more accommodating? I only hope Ididn't ramble too much thanks for the listen.

[MickeyCheeky]

I can relate a lot to your feelings. I have struggles with people, and making friends as well. I'm sorry you're going through this..

[Javacat]

MickeyCheeky thank you. Sometimes it's nice to be reminded that I'm not unique in my feelings. A very good thing.

What if you were to seek out groups that share some interests?

[Javacat]

Originally Posted by justafriend306

What if you were to seek out groups that share some interests?

This is the backbone of my plan to meet people when I get to the city. In the meantime I'm waiting until we move. There isn't much in the way of that kind of thing where we live. You know what I mean though when you go into a group and are lucky if you mesh with one person? Maybe I need to be more versatile?

[jenistar1]

You can visit other social clubs t make friends.