[Algyrr]

Hello,

I'm new here and my name is Nathan. I'm 19, and I lived in New Hampshire, USA for a while before I had to move to Quebec for University. I'm unsure if this is the right place to ask this, so if an admin can move where needed, that would be alright.

I have Asperger's and thus, I don't work well with people, which includes my parents. I never had a good relationship with them, and even as a kid, I would have to deal with them being somewhat supportive one day, and completely abusive the other, almost bipolar like. Anytime I pointed that out to them, one of two things would happen. I'd either be kicked out of the house for the day, regardless of time, temperature and if I refused, they'd threaten to call the police, which they have multiple times, one leading me arrested, and the other thing would've gone physical, which most often led to police being called.

This happened since I was around 16 up until I was 18, and at 18, they could legally kick me out without any reason or care because I was an adult, and by then, I was considered trespassing. This happened on New Year's this year.

Throughout my time at this university I had to switch residences multiple times because the people I lived with absolutely hated me because I don't drink (fiercely against it) and I'm not social. The second residence was much worse because the residence manager would "inspect" only my room, and I cleaned it to perfection everytime and he would only go into my room, blame me for all the messes in the place, and then when I closed my door when he left, you can hear him laughing with my roomates about me.

This has been going on, and on top of that, I have a political science class that I go to and I am constantly being viewed, not only by the students, but the professor who always shuts me down and calls me racist, misongynist, islamaphobic etc and she says that I said I justified genocides. Which is absolutely incorrect. Now, the dean, on top of the residence manager and my professor, are trying to kick me out on the meanwhile of my father not driving 3 hours to pick me up for the summer, when I have my girlfriend of a year and the last I saw her was for Christmas. I miss her uncontrollably, and she's the only person that gives me solace and hope. My parents absolutely hate her because she dyes her hair, and has piercings, and they would love for me to break up with her. I refuse to.

I'm sorry for this. It's just I have nobody I can talk to, or anything to do because I don't drive (my parents refused to let me drive), or any means of money, because my lifeline is my father, who gives me just enough to survive, and if I do anything to test that, it goes away forever, and I'm stuck with absolutely nothing, out of residences, no money, no university and no way to go back to the United States because my father has my passport and means of transportation.

[Skeezyks]

Hello Algyrr: I'm sorry you are having so much difficulty. Hopefully coming here to PC can be of some comfort & support. Since this is your first post here on PC... to PsychCentral… from the Skeezyks! May the time you spend here be of benefit.

PsychCentral is a great place to get information as well as support for mental health issues. The more you post, & reply to other members’ posts, the more a part of the community you will become. Plus there are social groups you can join & chat rooms where you’ll be able to connect with other PC members in real time (once your first 5 posts have been reviewed & approved.) Lots of great stuff! So please keep posting!