[passionfruit3]

We went down to go see my sisters graduation and it was terrible from start to almost finished in the beginning I was already upset cause my dad was going around the house sharing things with my sister and not me.yes we do have sibling rivlvarly me and my youngest sister.then when we were leaving I felt my dad saw me as hassle cause of my disability cause he said he didn't want to take me to the store before we left cause I'd fall he got mad at me for sitting in the front seat instead of my sisters fiance.then on the trip there was arguing.some guys honked at my little sister and older sisters fiance on the way to the graduation thinking they were together this made me feel bad cause I don't have anyone at that point I thought I might just hurt myself to stay down there and not come home anything not to deal with my little sister.me and my little sister didn't sleep in the same house that night cause she couldn’t agree to rules so she slept at my cousins nearby.next day a lot of procrastination made us slightly late to my sisters graduation and yes even there was arguing .I had to use a borrowed wheelchair from church friend.it took forever everyone was hungry we took pictured but my dad was obsessed with taking picture after picture along with my sister it got kind of ridiculous and it was getting darker.me and my younger sister started arguing after she said something to me.and I yelled people thought I was yelling at them but I wasn't I was suffering from hunger pains and my mom was also yelling at my dad me and little sister yelling at eachother my older sister was trying to keep the peace.the next day was worse there was no Sandiego zoo or sea world because my older sisters fiance had to be dropped off at the airport running into our time wed have there plus no one could come to a decision of what to do so we decided wed help my sister move instead. And then she lost her credit card and broke down crying.i told my brother to go to her cause he was better at it.still my parents had to loan money to my sister to get her new place. Then that was a bust cause it was infested with Flys and beer bottles and very dirty and deserted .I wasn't there though. She stayed in that house with her cats.upstairs.at her old dorm we thought for a moment wed be on streets cause no one wanted to pick us up and take us to our are other hotel.my dad hung up on us.then
We got to our hotel cause he came back stayed there for the night had breakfast everyone was kinda down my little sister and I ,I mean. We got picked up from there and met my older sister she started crying again we all had a group hug and told her we were sorry. She said she just wanted to come home her job was giving her a hard time.the next day when we got back dad had no work so we all went to the Oakland zoo and me with my. chicken self even went on the lift. I am currently in process of getting muscle biopsy to see any other tcause of my muscle weakness as it worsens

You went through a lot to make it through your sisters graduation. She was going through much as well and from what you described, she needed all the help anyone could provide. Even if it wasn't always smooth, it's good that you and your family were there!
I'm sorry about your family's financial struggles. People at PC don't talk about all their money challenges that often but living on the financial edge is stressful.
Living in a wheelchair sounds even more challenging. Thanks for telling us about your adventure. Let us know how you biopsy goes. <<hugs>>

[Sunflower123]

I'm sorry you are having such a tough time. You did make it to your sister's graduation though. That's something to pat yourself on the back for. It must be difficult to live life in a wheelchair. I really feel for you. I hope things start looking up for you soon. Thinking of you.