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Old Jul 17, 2017, 05:18 AM
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I always write you when you come to my mind.
That often times results in me expressing anger as I am feeling it (are you following me here?)

So instead I will write you at a set time once every Sunday.

The odds are good that if I pick the same time once a week I will NOT be angry at you.

As I said before, I am not always thinking about your bad qualities, how you hurt me and your potential to hurt me,

I hope you can grasp at least a bit of what I am saying here.

(As you see I have little confidence in your ability to understand anything. I will never have confidence in your intelligence, but most of the time it does not bother me. It only bothers me when I think about the harm you have caused me because of your ignorance and the harm you may still cause me)

OK! I will give it a shot.

Have a great week

I will write next Sunday <3
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MickeyCheeky, Sunflower123, Turtle_Rider

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Old Jul 17, 2017, 07:08 AM
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Sounds like a good strategy Hope you'll be able to follow it!
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Old Jul 17, 2017, 12:15 PM
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I would hate to have that kind of sour letter E Mailed to me. Best to back down on the accusations. I understand your anger, but you are doing more harm than good with this kind of mail.
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Old Jul 17, 2017, 04:39 PM
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I would hate to have that kind of sour letter E Mailed to me. Best to back down on the accusations. I understand your anger, but you are doing more harm than good with this kind of mail.
Agreed. I had wanted to say something about this post but didn't know how to word it properly, but you expressed my thoughts exactly. Thank you Thunder Bow.
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Old Jul 18, 2017, 06:14 AM
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I agree. Why even contact her if you are going to express negative thoughts? Also, why put yourself in a position where you feel negatively? That seems unpleasant. Best wishes.
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Old Jul 29, 2017, 12:54 PM
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I agree with that it sounds so negative and hurtful.. wording it in such a way seems like it leaves little to no room for growth and improvements
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