The man I love returned

And my best friend says stay away and I know she's right and I need to listen. The draw to him is very strong, even still. I went on a date that just makes me miss him more. I loved hearing his voice, I love his strong body, I miss him. I have therapy tomorrow she'll remind me that I wanted to break up with him and the reasons why, but it's true taking a break from dating is important.

I'm attracting people that aren't right for me. The latest guy told me he wants me to **** other guys, I told him I'm religious and I can't do that. He says he loves me on the first date. I'm just really shocked these type of people exist. On paper he's a good match, but in life OMG.

So seeing my ex return was like a welcome site. He didn't want me ****ing other guys. He loves me and defended me though it was against my mom. I know she's right I know she's right. I need to listen. I so love his body, he picked me up! He's super strong. Why does loving someone have to be so sucky?

I'm told in a good and loving relationship, it's not sucky at all. It's not always perfection, and the situations can suck but not the loving. There are other strong men out there, if that's what turns you on

What else do you find important in men besides their body? There are ton of decent big strong guys out there.

I mean no offense by this, but from reading what you shared - the relationship dynamic sounds like it falls under 'attachment' more so than it does authentic/genuine 'love'...

In the 3 short paragraphs you provided you commented on his physical body twice and commended him for defending you from your mom... You didn't mention any positive attributes about this individual by way of his actual nature & character. Honesty, Integrity, Compassion, Empathy, Kindness, Selflessness, Generosity, Humility, etc. - where does he fall with regards to these qualities? Why is he considered 'bad news' for you?

Well mom says he's a liar, and lacks integrity. I found him to be kind, compassionate. The rest not so much.

Is your mom right on those?

Well things got postponed, but she calls anytime someone doesn't keep their word a liar. He didn't really lie on purpose, he said he was going to move up in Dec, but than he was able to keep his house and decided he didn't want to rent a room at my mom's house where she gives no privacy. That's really changing his mind but she called him a liar for changing his mind.

He hurt you before, he'll do it again.