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I am actually coping well.
I just had a theft of some items incredibly important to me. I identified myself symbolically with these things so to lose them is a pretty big deal. There was a time I would have felt like I had lost my right arm. But I am okay. My CBT work sheets havve helped. This isn't the end of my world. In fact, insurance may allow me to replace it all. |
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I bow to your equanimity...
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"I may be older but I am not wise / I'm still a child's grown-up disguise / and I never can tell you what you want to know / You will find out as you go." (from: "A Nightengale's Lullaby" - Julie Last) |
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#3
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I'm coping Ok. Could be feeling better. But I'm taking active steps to move forward. Sorry about your theft and items. Your attitude is great.
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By staying positive and telling myself to stay calm and not to panic.
The main way I cope in life is just staying positive. It works very well. |
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I'm not today. Sorry.
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I hope things are getting a little better for you!
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I hope you got things worked out. Its hard to loose things that are important to us
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Learning my capabilities and weaknesses
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Good job on feeling ok despite the theft. I'm not doing my best today, though ironically coming to the forum has made me feel much better.
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Not very well
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I feel ok now, went to a senior party yesterday and danced alot. it was a lot of fun.
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Coping a little better now......sleep always helps.
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I just want to be alone, do nothing.
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I feel miserable, now everyone thinks I'm an animal abuser. My past haunts me and I just wish I could sleep.
I have an appointment with a therapist, but as time goes by, I'm just finding excuses to avoid reliving that crap. For the record, emotions aside. I love dog's. Especially puppy breath. I think I'm done with that whole childhood crappy cancer. So tempted to get off my face, but at 2:30am haha, doubt it...not |
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I have PTSD and how I cope is that I write out my feelings or I cry. I just cry and hug a pillow cause I know I must get all these feeling's out if I'm going to heal at all. Writing helps me the most though and listening to music. I mostly listen to shoegaze and dream pop artists. They seem to take me away and all I feel happiness.
Music pretty much saved me from everything. If I didn't have music to listen too, I believe I'd be lost. |
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Honestly, without music I think I might not be alive. Coping...pdoc way raised meds. I'm feeling much more stable, but trying to cope with the side effects of feeling "loopy" and light-headed. Feels like I keep sliding out of the environment into a half-sleep. |
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I was doing fairly good in spite of a hard day at work. Then bang my H is mad at the world via me. I've told him certain subjects are triggers for me and he says psychomumbojumbo ****. So I said I love you and clicked off the phone. Toxic, yes, I know. I am still shaking and gritting my teeth. Probably won't sleep. This ISN'T coping.
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I ruined everything. I think I am just too traumatized to deal with certain situations. I hoped I could shut up and go along, but I got hysterical and made a scene. Now I plan to make myself scarce and think I really do have cPTSD. When you are doing a huge shot of vodka in a parking lot on a Sunday morning and trying to leave the family trip ... you know
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Relapsed again, but strangely enough, I'm using less. Too lazy to even put this in a proper frame.. I've been up since 3am.
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Awesome today!
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True happiness comes not when we get rid of all our problems, but when we change our relationship to them, when we see our problems as a potential source of awakening, opportunities to practice patience and learn.~Richard Carlson |
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Not very well. Feel guilty and out of step about everything. Feels painful. Things I am trying seem to be making it harder as they kind of pile up when they feel like they are not working.
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It's 5:30 so too early to know for certain, but I'm in a positive mood. I just hope for a smooth transition after my messy medicating habit last week.
Let's give it a shot |
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I haven't gone out today which probably isn't a good thing.
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