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Old Oct 28, 2018, 03:48 PM
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This is why my husband and son do not get along. My son keeps wanting him to acknowledge some things that he thought was wrong. His dad emphasizes all the things that he has done for our son (there were many good things he did for him but there was also yelling). That he won't just acknowledge (even if he agrees to disagree) some of our son's feelings about this has made it so they are an impasse. It is so sad and tragic and I don't know if it will ever change.
I think it’s a trait of narcissism and it won’t ever change. I’m sorry for you and your son. If his father would show some compassion it would build a bridge between them but he won’t admit any wrongdoing.
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Old Oct 28, 2018, 04:11 PM
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Coping okay. Eating candy and being on the internet, lol.

Went to church and meditation today. It's the first day in my plan to go 5 times in a row.
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Old Oct 29, 2018, 07:05 AM
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I was meant to go out today (to do something for my inner child), butt circumstances mean I can't.
so at home just pretending to survive... eating stupid amounts of junkfood, watching programmes I don't wanna really watch, that kind of thing

I also got a new book called the sisterhood. honestly I should start that at some point today, but I can't be bothered.
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Old Oct 29, 2018, 02:12 PM
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be glad when today's over

not coping with it
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Old Oct 30, 2018, 12:53 AM
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I am coping with tendonitis by getting up early(after going to bed early)and trying to get an appointment at the doctor's for today.There are no pre bookable appointment so have to try bag one when the mornings available slots are released at 8am this morning.Two hours to go,have been doing chores to keep me busy.I think I will have a good day.Yoga has been changed from this morning to wednesday evening so that i can go to the doctor and I am going to my favourite cafe for a meal and a coffee.I may watch a film later too.
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Old Oct 30, 2018, 02:16 AM
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Not coping well with the liars. I will never accept them in my life.
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Old Oct 30, 2018, 06:55 AM
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I am feeling quite abandoned and quite low

with that said, I did make an effert last night to start my new book the sisterhood (no sleep, so gave me something to do)

actually it's an okay book

a trigger in it though- just one, but I'm okay. I just need to remember she's just in the book, not real
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Old Oct 30, 2018, 04:56 PM
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I'm not doing badly, but I am coping poorly. I skipped my language class today and just said I wasn't going to be there. I'm feeling a little better, because my teacher wrote that it was ok, and "See you next week." So I'm glad I'm not like waiting around for a response and fretting about that.
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Old Oct 30, 2018, 09:16 PM
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I am coping badly I am in pain,tennis elbow,and feeling miserable!
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Old Oct 31, 2018, 06:02 PM
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I am camping out in 25 degree weather. Keeping nice and warm in my sleeping bag at night. Moving to lower elevations tomorrow.
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Old Oct 31, 2018, 06:03 PM
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Yikes, that's cold! I never really got the point of camping, but I'm glad you're staying warm.
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Old Oct 31, 2018, 06:41 PM
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Not too good. Called into work. Basically fired my therapist. I don’t think my meds are working. definitely Not the Xanax though. There’s nothing I can do though.

The holiday retail season is starting and work really needs me. I have to focus on doing a good job.
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Old Oct 31, 2018, 09:30 PM
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I met with my T today. I talked about things I've never talked about with anyone. It was strange to open up, but it went well.
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Old Nov 01, 2018, 10:58 AM
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Have been really busy today but trying to keep on top of everything and everything has gone (reasonably) smoothly, so I feel fine.
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Old Nov 01, 2018, 07:07 PM
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I am still in pain with tennis elbow, but I am coping better today, mainly cos I have been taking painkillers. I took myself off to the theatre to see Cilla the musical, I enjoyed it.Made the filling for my vegan pastries it is pumpkin,bulgar wheat and raisins,I will bake them tomorrow.
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Old Nov 01, 2018, 07:59 PM
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Don’t feel too good. I’m not too sure why. Throughout the day I just got more and more irritable until I felt really upset
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Old Nov 02, 2018, 11:44 AM
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tough week, very depressed and lots of blackouts (so depressed I didn't come here)

wednesday was halloween, not a bad night I suppose, though a lot of my plans (all of them?), fell through one way or another

still reading the sisterhood, reading it slowly... not so much enjoying it, but when it's finished I will go on to something better I am sure
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Old Nov 02, 2018, 02:16 PM
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Felt paranoid and anxious all morning. Pushed myself to complete daily exercise regime, then took a shower. Feel so much better.
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Old Nov 03, 2018, 02:53 PM
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not a bad day.

only thing that really ruined it for me was the fireworks outside my window.

so triggering...
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Old Nov 03, 2018, 05:46 PM
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I started using my stress relief soap again. Work went really well. I also drank an entire pot of stress relief tea. I didn’t know it was that easy to get rid of anxiety and stress.
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Old Nov 05, 2018, 05:41 AM
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I thought I posted about yesterday, clearly not

yesterday was a really bad day for me, a lot of chronic pain, 3 blackouts, and no motivation

hope today is better- not sure I could cope with a repeat of yesterday.

so far so good..
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Old Nov 05, 2018, 02:16 PM
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I had a good day,lunch at my favourite cafe and saw the film,Slaughterhouse Rulez,weird but entertaining and worth watching,it's got Simon Pegg in it,I like him.
I feel sleepy and lethargic tonight but I coped well today,only think was I cancelled my therapy so I could go watch the film,so that's not so good,but it will do.
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Old Nov 05, 2018, 03:49 PM
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Very pained. Feel a little better and then either I do something that hurts or someone else does and the pain increases.
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Old Nov 05, 2018, 07:57 PM
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By keeping focused.
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Old Nov 05, 2018, 11:42 PM
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I am actually coping well.

I just had a theft of some items incredibly important to me. I identified myself symbolically with these things so to lose them is a pretty big deal. There was a time I would have felt like I had lost my right arm. But I am okay. My CBT work sheets havve helped. This isn't the end of my world. In fact, insurance may allow me to replace it all.

I'm really sorry that you lost things that were significant to you. I have some "treasures" that I can't imagine losing. I have a whole shelf of stuff that I display in my room, including a terribly worn out winie-the-pooh doll that I got from my Dad on my first Christmas in 1970. Is that kind of familiar to you??

How am I coping?? Oh God, I am coping, but i have no ides how. It has to be God or something, otherwise I would have lost my mind. I've been off my meds since July 10, when I had my heart surgery. I've had several setbacks since then and I'm scare d and emotionally worn out. I've been cycling like a maniac, so I have all this energy and I rarely sleep. but I cry constantly too. I'm waiting to hear back from my pdoc because they actually have to have a meeting to determine what medsI can take given my medical conditions and all the meds I'm on for my heart, my diabetes and my GI issues. U think they might be waiting for the Pope to be available. LOL. - Mary / PaintedTurtle
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