I am once again after a year of trying to make it work with my narcissistic son am being punished by him. I have tried for a whole year with a lot of prayer and meditation to keep a good relationship with him. I have kept my mouth shut and made it work. Well, 2 weeks ago I was talking to him on the phone and when I thought I had hung up, I didn't. So he overheard what I was telling my husband and he called back all but hurt. Well, now he won't accept my apology and is making me pay once again for my sin. I'm not up to it anymore as I am Bipolar myself. I have to take care of my own mental health and he is a bad trigger for my Bipolar. But yet I'm worried about him because he is having surgery on Monday and here he won't talk to me so I won't even be able to see how he did or anything. Even though I know that I must go no contact with him once again it hurts as a mother to not be able to help her own son. Anyway, thanks for listening to me vent. Any suggestions would be most appreciated.