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Old Jun 14, 2019, 10:03 PM
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I'm done dealing with everyone and their dog's ********, their drama, their burdens, their baggage in which is always a one way street. I'm done crying over when it's "my turn" to tell you that I'm not okay, that I want you to tell me it'll get better, that I am doing my best, that you are proud of me and my accomplishments. I want validation, too. And I want to go home.

I don't know how to stop people from dumping all their problems on me. I'm tired of hearing it when no one will do the same for me.
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Old Jun 14, 2019, 10:09 PM
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It's okay and healthy to be done with that LL. You take care of YOU! I hope you will find peace and happiness You deserve it.
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Old Jun 15, 2019, 03:33 AM
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Its so hard to have people dump all over you when you are in pain.
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Old Jun 15, 2019, 08:39 AM
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Hugs it's very hard to be dumped on all the time, I have friends that do that to me all the time, even when im in emotional pain. I can relate to you. Hugs
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Old Jun 15, 2019, 09:12 AM
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((((((((((((((((((LL)))))))))))))) I am so sorry to hear this! I have had that problem too and it is hard to deal with! xoxoxoxox
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Old Jun 15, 2019, 10:08 AM
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It's unfortunate, but you cannot stop other people from disrespecting your personal peace and space. The only thing you can do is reduce your exposure to these other people who constantly show you they can only navigate having others give THEM all the power and control.
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Old Jun 15, 2019, 10:37 AM
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It's ok to feel this way, and it's perfectly acceptable to set boundaries and maintain your own space.
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Old Jun 15, 2019, 09:07 PM
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You are doing your best and I know that everyone here, including me, is proud of you and your accomplishments!



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Old Jun 17, 2019, 11:06 AM
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