When outraged, people take action

I think your instincts and judgement are great and you are always kind. There are people in this world who take advantage of people who are kind for their own gain. Those of us who have been taken advantage of can learn from it and become stronger. We just have to have faith and support each other. Thank you for always, always supporting me Fuzzy!

Thanks so much TunedOut. Thank you for always supporting me. I’m sending love and hugs

“attempting to reconcile what others said to how I felt”

I completely relate to this. it is a mismatch, and confusing

I agree. Abusers devalue what is beautiful. They have twisted brains

Every situation is different but in my case there was or is problems with miscommunication, differing needs, personalities, hard times like unemployment, isolation, mental health issues etc. No one is perfect and we are still sorting a lot out. Yes, there are abusers out there, I do understand that but I was in a situation that just became to much. I still cannot handle it. We can only do so much for others when, for whatever reason, they won't budge or see you as an enemy. I still would gladly give my life if I thought that would help. I am still trying to help but stopped doing the same care taking because sometimes not letting someone fail makes them think everything is OK when it is so so not. I pray all the time about it. I trust thank God and the angels will help the person see. They are suffering but could do so much better if they would realize they needed help. Despite our love for this person, we hurt them too. Things just unravel sometimes because we thought we knew best plus something is really wrong. Perhaps we just don't know everything as well. It is important not to assume too much. Don't mess with the universe, the karma is more than you could ever imagine. People who are abusive and evil will eventually pay the piper. I am sure of it. Life is SO SO hard on some people but sometimes what is the hardest is what we do to ourselves. I pray it will get better.

If others won't budge or see us as an enemy …

I've had experiences with people irl who are completely unbending and also not at all insightful into themselves

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