[DarkMagician]

I'm not looking for any advice so let's get that out of they way. I just want to express how I feel. I have seem to have had a lot of fights with people in the past and I don't mean physical fights. It has taken a toll on me. It has all built up over time. It made me feel angry and it made me feel alone to put it lightly. Other feelings are involved too of course and the feelings that I feel are very intense. Pretty much I do not feel like I have that rapport in my life. Someone wrote to someone else on another support place that I was at and it was the moderator who said that lonliness isn't about proximity it's about rapport. I went and looked up the definition of those words and I feel like that is really true for me. That's why I'm going through what I'm going through because I don't feel like I have enough rapport. It creates that feeling of feeling understood when you actually find someone who you can talk about your feelings with without them judging but instead they listen to you and they feel for you. So anyways I'm just pretty upset sometimes because other people can be really ******.

[bpcyclist]

Yes. Listening is a very underrated skill.

[Fuzzybear]

I also agree, good listening is a very under rated skill