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Feb 26, 2020, 05:12 PM
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Really told him no. I've been wavering but therapy got my senses back. I read articles about being a mistress one was spot on. How I was being treated. Anyway, I know now we are done and it's hard but I'm relieved kind of. I didn't want to be his toy.
My therapist was like if you want to do something like this, now's your chance, but what you said your looking for is this. And that really cleared it up for me.
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Son: 14, 12/15/2009 R.I.P.  Daughter: 20  Diagnosis: Bipolar with Psychosis. Latuda 100 mgs. |
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Feb 26, 2020, 07:15 PM
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Were you his mistress since you last posted and since you last told us you had broken up with him?
Aviza, it's time to reevaluate your choices in men and your overall approach to dating. But good for you for ending it, if you truly have this time.
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"Twenty-five years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope for a destination" ~4 Non Blondes Last edited by Have Hope; Feb 26, 2020 at 07:38 PM. |
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Feb 26, 2020, 09:15 PM
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We were talking but hadn't seen each other. He really got into my head yesterday. Therapy today really helped. Saw my arms worker too.
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Son: 14, 12/15/2009 R.I.P. Daughter: 20 Diagnosis: Bipolar with Psychosis. Latuda 100 mgs. |
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Feb 26, 2020, 09:21 PM
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Quote:
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"Twenty-five years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope for a destination" ~4 Non Blondes |
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Feb 27, 2020, 10:41 AM
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Glad you are working with t. This guy lied to you so you better off cutting contacts.
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Feb 27, 2020, 12:50 PM
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What would happen do you think if you just tried to be with yourself, without a man, for a little while?
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When I was a kid, my parents moved a lot, but I always found them--Rodney Dangerfield |
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Feb 28, 2020, 11:22 AM
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In therapy have you done anything to figure out why you keep getting drawn back to unavailable or inappropriate men? I’ve seen a few cases of this with people is in my own life. The reasons I have seen seem to be that they like the drama of it all or they fear being alone. Maybe your therapist can help you explore this. It might help you avoid repeating the same pattern.
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Feb 29, 2020, 10:00 AM
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Drama is what my arms worker said. I'm attracted to drama.
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Son: 14, 12/15/2009 R.I.P. Daughter: 20 Diagnosis: Bipolar with Psychosis. Latuda 100 mgs. |
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