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Old Mar 08, 2020, 07:56 PM
CuriousWin CuriousWin is offline
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If mindfulness is co-opted from Buddhism and made into a secular western practice without compassion it could end up being quite sterile and dead. I don't know if this makes any sense. Westerners did not "add" compassion to mindfulness and turn it into a western practice. I understand that people do not want mindfulness to be connected with a religion but the fact is that mindfulness has been recorded as a practice introduced by the Buddha himself and the Buddha primarily taught compassion.
That could be true but mindfulness is practice in many ways without having religious practice involved. It is all to the individual of which method to use to practice this technique

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Old Mar 09, 2020, 05:45 AM
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When I first hear the word “Mindfulness,” I think about the thought of caring for someone else. Likewise, reading the concept of mindfulness I can comprehend its meaning. I have practiced this technique before, but I never knew it was a part of Buddhism practiced by Buddhists. One technique that I use is called time to myself. I listen to Jazz with the candle on. I use this technique to meditate about my personal life. This technique has helped me to analyze my inner self. I stay in a quiet place to avoid any distractions.
@DechanDawa can explain it much better than me but the activity you describe I sort of think it could be a formal practise of meditation.
Mindfulness is also meditation.

There’s something I see as very important and that I think I didn’t mention about mindfulness, your post recalled it to me.
Mindfulness is a tool for self-learning. The goal is being aware not only of what’s happening outside, inside you but also those things that are not so apparent but are more hidden behind our behaviours, emotions, etc.
Practice in mindfulness whose meaning is “full attention” is supposed to facilitate you this knowledge. Not to judge yourself or others but to know the reality more as it is.
In the end to see, you have to look and want to look.

Can I ask you a favor? Could you explain a little bit more about your technique? Do you use the music as a mean to help you to stay focused?
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Old Mar 09, 2020, 12:21 PM
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Discussing mindfulness practice as one specific thing is almost impossible, isn't it? It is like discussing exercise. One person's exercise is walking their dog around the block while another person's exercise is climbing a mountain.


I was taught mindfulness and meditation in a very traditional setting. However, when I trained as a mindfulness practice instructor it was less traditional. I liked mindfulness practice instructor training because it brought in the whole world as a ground for practice.


What AzulOscuro wrote is the basic truth...we have to remember the goal of "full attention"...and whatever gets us to that place is authentic practice. It is interesting to hear how people incorporate mindfulness into their lives.
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Old Mar 09, 2020, 12:24 PM
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When I first hear the word “Mindfulness,” I think about the thought of caring for someone else. Likewise, reading the concept of mindfulness I can comprehend its meaning. I have practiced this technique before, but I never knew it was a part of Buddhism practiced by Buddhists. One technique that I use is called time to myself. I listen to Jazz with the candle on. I use this technique to meditate about my personal life. This technique has helped me to analyze my inner self. I stay in a quiet place to avoid any distractions.




This sounds like a form of insight meditation.
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