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Old Sep 20, 2020, 11:31 PM
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I recently felt ignored and ostracized by someone.

How do you mentally and psychologically cope with it? How do you get over it?
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Old Sep 21, 2020, 12:10 AM
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Remember that how they treat you is a reflection of them and not you. What they think does not matter because you know you are worth more than that.
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Old Sep 21, 2020, 02:28 AM
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Were you literally ignored or were you overlooked? I am not saying one is better than the other I am just curious.
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Old Sep 21, 2020, 10:43 AM
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Remember that how they treat you is a reflection of them and not you. What they think does not matter because you know you are worth more than that.
I am working on it although it's hard
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Old Sep 21, 2020, 12:07 PM
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The silent treatment is abuse. Best to stay away from that someone.
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Old Sep 21, 2020, 02:39 PM
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I agree with Raindropvampire- it is a reflection of them not you.

Maybe reflecting upon your relationship and whether it made you the best version of yourself or not may help.
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Old Sep 22, 2020, 09:46 PM
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The silent treatment is abuse. Best to stay away from that someone.
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Old Sep 30, 2020, 08:49 AM
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I agree with the other posts. Hugs to you!
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