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Old Mar 28, 2022, 02:25 PM
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i have a very very very close friend that got sick last monday, went downhill fast & was put on life support yesterday. when i called her brother last night to check in he told me to quit calling & bugging him & her grandaughter. i am so way beyond hurt & angry.

i understand that this is harder on them then me but they arent the only ones who love her and are going to miss her terribly after shes gone.

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Old Mar 30, 2022, 04:31 PM
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I'm angry for always letting my temper get out of control online yet in real life I am withdrawn and I barely talk yet I am super polite and nice and I am just not the same person. Like what the **** is wrong with me? I know I'm basically just an asshole but why is it just a one sided thing. If anyone in my life saw how I acted on this site they would be in complete shock.
This s@cks a lot! I DO understand you.
Don’t be hard on you. Many times, we do the best as possible under certain circumstances and we don’t have energy to do more or in a different way.
Isn’t it cool that you realised how bad it makes you feel? This is because you have remorse. This is because you are a good person so feeling bad when you react is the way you tell yourself which is the best way. It will take time but you are ready to make the change.
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Old Mar 30, 2022, 04:37 PM
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I’m not angry at anybody today. Only the normal people I use to be angry at: Politicians, manipulators in general who only care
about themselves. But, that’s it. It’s a matter of every single day. I don’t like them.
Apart from that, I’m not angry at anybody. And if there’s something I’ve learned along these past months is to not be angry at myself. And, baby, this is a big relief. 👍
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Old Mar 30, 2022, 07:33 PM
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My sister best friend had really hurt my feeling which made me feel angry due to not being able to achieve the goals that my sister best friend daughter had achieved due to my niece talking about my disability that has stop me.
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Old Mar 31, 2022, 03:20 AM
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I am angry because someone is trying to make me eat from this new takeout place tomorrow, rather than my traditional mcdonalds because acording to them, " it's better".

well firstly that's my tradition. has been for years. secondly no one tells me that something is better for me than something else. I'll eat what I want
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Old Mar 31, 2022, 11:49 AM
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I'm angry that I am the way I am. I wish I were different, better than I am.
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Old Apr 01, 2022, 02:53 PM
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My sister best friend had really hurt my feeling which made me feel angry due to not being able to achieve the goals that my sister best friend daughter had achieved due to my niece talking about my disability that has stop me.
What his/her told you? I’m curious to know.
But, anyways. the fact that you haven’t gotten your goals yet, it doesn’t mean you are not gonna get them in the future. Or maybe, even some of them.

Most of people don’t get all the goals because several circumstances and psychological problems or a syndrome make it very difficult, it’s very understandable to be one of them, or at least, to delay this achievement.
Said that, focus on enjoying the way to these goals. If you are able to do that, the probability you get your goals will be closer. Or even along this process you can even discover that your real goals end up being a little different ones that are similar but a little different and full your life as much and the first ones could do it.
Also take into account that if you have a lack of self-confidense, you will find more obstacles in the path and with every obstacle you overcome you will get more confidence and even s
discover new things to do that might mean you are very good at doing.

I want to encourage you. And take into account the process is what counts. Your level of motivation, knowing your flaws because of any handicap you might have. Everyone have handicaps of one or another nature but they feel a failure to not achieve their goals or all their goals. Many they feel less lucky and suffer more than the person who enjoy the progress, who is able to reinventing him/herself is more happy.
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Old Apr 01, 2022, 03:08 PM
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I am angry because someone is trying to make me eat from this new takeout place tomorrow, rather than my traditional mcdonalds because acording to them, " it's better".

well firstly that's my tradition. has been for years. secondly no one tells me that something is better for me than something else. I'll eat what I want
You made me hungry now. lol!
Solution: Today, this new place, next time, McDonalds. 😀
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Old Apr 01, 2022, 03:13 PM
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I'm angry that I am the way I am. I wish I were different, better than I am.
Do you feel any pressure to be in another way, I mean at work, or you know, the nearly impossible models promoted on social media...What exactly don’t like of you? There are things that can’t be changed but there others that can be bettered.
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Old Apr 07, 2022, 04:17 AM
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I am angry because my birthday is coming up

I don't celebrate it anyway, but I still wish it could be scrapped from the calendar
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Old Apr 07, 2022, 06:10 PM
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I’m angry because I’ve been thinking about a decent country I could chose to self exile and I couldn’t find a single one.
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Old Apr 10, 2022, 07:24 PM
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I'm angry because someone ****ed with me today..
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Old Apr 11, 2022, 10:33 AM
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I'm angry because someone ****ed with me today..
It’s normal. But, you know what? The other person is the one who has to problem for messing with others. You head up! 😘
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Old Apr 11, 2022, 06:11 PM
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I’m thinking who I’m mad at today.
Luckily, noone pissed me off today, a little the stupid guy who wrote the recipe and said the sponge cake had to be in the oven for 50 minutes when it was already burnt at 45. 🙄
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Old Apr 12, 2022, 06:37 PM
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I was so angry today at the way my sister and her best friend had yelled at me that had led into a neighbor yelling at me.
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And life goes on.

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Old Apr 14, 2022, 02:59 AM
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Writing down our feelings is the best way of expressing ourselves. Sometimes we may not have anyone to speak to or share with. At those moments, writing can become the best weapon for taking out the frustrations.
Thanks for this!
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Old Apr 14, 2022, 03:19 AM
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Anger management is very important as sometimes anger might become destructive to not only others but oneself too.
Breathing exercises have always helped me in managing my anger.
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Old Apr 14, 2022, 09:13 AM
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bleh no rest for 5 weeks. none
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Old Apr 15, 2022, 05:16 AM
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Old Apr 20, 2022, 06:40 PM
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I’m angry at a forum about true crime, topic I’m a fan of, because I have been banned. They think I’m a troll.
Some people know me here and I’m far from being a troll. Indeed, I think it’s a way to lose your time in a stupid way. Being a troll. No more explanations. I don’t know what I did to make them think that.
I’m very confused even more confused than angry.
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Old Apr 21, 2022, 05:16 AM
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I am angry at someone telling me it's okay I'm not coping

no it isn't. not when I've not been coping for an age..
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Old Apr 27, 2022, 03:31 AM
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I really hate when people call me clever

as far as I'm concerned someone who dropped out in the 5th grade and can barely look after herself is far from clever

I do know my nursery rhymes though. woo

and I can sing all the verses to icky sticky bublegum
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Old Apr 28, 2022, 02:37 PM
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I really hate when people call me clever

as far as I'm concerned someone who dropped out in the 5th grade and can barely look after herself is far from clever

I do know my nursery rhymes though. woo

and I can sing all the verses to icky sticky bublegum
Listen to compliments from people you think they are worthy to trust in.
Anyways, if this is said by many people maybe you have this quality, only that you can’t see it.
Intelligence involves many components. Many. And thanks god, now they are all taking into account.
Problem-solving, memory, social and emotional skills, creativeness.
In any case, our brain has been discovered that get more plasticity that we thought it had.

On another side, each individual is unique. I see meaningless to compare one with another.
And why to judge or put a number or a mark.

Do you think these people is trying to manipulate or lying you when they say that?
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Old Apr 28, 2022, 02:41 PM
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Not angry. Very much more than angry. At myself or at technology in general or with Robi, my new, robot vacuum cleaner.
I don’t get it works properly with my app or my app doesn’t get to make her work as she should. Or maybe it’s me.

I’m inclined by that Robi is terrible lazy. lol!
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Old Apr 29, 2022, 04:44 AM
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I am angry at my sister-in-law who keeps taunting me. She doesn’t even need a reason to taunt me. She has taunted me for working for long hours recently.
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