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Wise Elder
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#1
I’m watching some new movies today on Hulu after and argument with my older brother
__________________ Everyone can do magic - Cassie Nightgale the good witch. Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live. This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak. In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living. Like love, it's how we know we're alive. And life goes on. That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries |
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I miss the era before 2016/2017
Not a nostalgic person but I had a normal average life and hopes I wish I had managed myself better, but I would have never imagined a future like this I cant believe it, five years of nonsense and abuse and as much as I blame myself, this is out of control and i won't fight, i don't fight in these conditions, it is objectively too much |
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I think I need to forgive myself, offer self-compassion and acceptance. But all that seems easier said than done. |
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I am aware it is non-sense to talk like this, it is just that I lost control and a serious of bad events happened globale I personally can only re-think my actions Because I have not been a saint. At all I started to think I was punished by karma or something I don't want to see my older sister anymore. She was so worse than me, and childish beyond the line I used to protect her and she didn't even realize She never helped me with my unemployment condition. And despite being labelled like trash i am aware that just few years ago i used to be a working person who also help others She did the minimum and never cared for any ethical issue. And i cant blame depression cause she finds plenty of time for malicious hobbys I dont want to talk like this, but I lost completely control in 2017. My fault |
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I made mistakes and have no more privacy, and that's why i have less and less tolerance with people who suffer boredom and pretend to tease/insulting/violating me after years of depression and isolation
Boredom is kilometers far from being a problem for me. I can't stand cheat-chats moths Also they blame me for everything that went bad in the family like i dont do it already alone, blaming myself for this nightmare that is now to big to handle I have zero tolerance Vs childish adult A child can be bored. A kid can be bored. A teenager, maybe a twenty-something. But an adult has to manage "the great issue of boredom" alone. I did it all my life and was alone in that Last edited by Gasplessy; Mar 03, 2023 at 12:09 PM.. |
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Hardly coping. Struggling with pain and shame, wish I could go back tho i dont deserve it
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If I think about it I probably don’t deserve many of the things in my life either but I’ve come to t feel it’s not about deserving or otherwise. It’s possibly about doing our best in the moment with what resources we’ve got at that time. I’m still developing those thoughts. Peace to you.
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Very difficult lately
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#12
Was coping okay (cleaning, cooking, thinking about fixing things) until my (poor) mother returned home just saying "That boy is always smiling and kind", referring to a neighbour my age who is moving in the nearby apartment
I started saying "Well i am sorry but I too used to be active and smiling just some years ago" and she was sad but also kinda gave me a silent treatment So i tried to stop but we had a discussioni and i eventually screamed "what do you want?" Then realized i have just been a beast for six to ten years straight and wish this wasn't true |
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Little better than last days
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Coping quite bad, very nervous mix of anxiety and guilt
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#15
Keeping busy but feel defeated
Wish I could go back and did things properly when I could |
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Wise Elder
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#16
I’m working on hidden anger :grouphug and trying to let go
__________________ Everyone can do magic - Cassie Nightgale the good witch. Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live. This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak. In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living. Like love, it's how we know we're alive. And life goes on. That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries |
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#17
Finding it hard to keep up with unsolved old issues/regrets
Can't believe i am still here unsolved Also i don't want the autumn to arrive. Autumn is for the youngs |
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#18
I am trying to figure out how to deal with :hug being ignored all the time
__________________ Everyone can do magic - Cassie Nightgale the good witch. Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live. This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak. In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living. Like love, it's how we know we're alive. And life goes on. That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries |
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#19
Used to cope in the past but now time's up
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Wise Elder
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#20
I need to figure out how to let go of the past
__________________ Everyone can do magic - Cassie Nightgale the good witch. Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live. This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak. In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living. Like love, it's how we know we're alive. And life goes on. That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries |
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