Constantly triggered

Can you block him?

I will block him, yes.

Good move.

So, I unfriended him yesterday. He just came after me again, but over messenger, telling me it's "hilarious" that I unfriended him. I have no idea how he knows it was me because of so many friends and facebook does not inform you when someone unfriends you. So I told him he came after me the other day, harassed me, and to leave me alone. Next I blocked him before he could reply again.

Now I am physically shaking from my PTSD.

Yeah that’s creepy. As far as I know the only way you can tell someone unfriended you is either by checking through your own friends list or by going to that person’s profile.

Good job blocking him. Hopefully this will be this last of him.

Thank you! I believe he likely stalked my profile, and at 5 in the morning!!!! That's very creepy!

I am still shaken. This guy has been physically and sexually abusive with several women. He's a predator. I felt stalked the other day on Facebook by him. I am so glad I blocked him. Since we stopped dating well over a year ago, I've tried to keep the peace because we run in the same music scene. But then the latest stories I heard from his ex fiance, who told me that he had tackled her and broke her arm, it made me turn a corner. But still, I tried to keep the peace because he had never done anything negative or abusive to. me, personally, except for he became nasty when I broke up with him. Nasty to the point where I told him I would hang up the phone on him and leave the conversation. But that was the only time he had been difficult and negative towards me. So I tried to keep the peace for the peace's sake, and being Christian, but this latest act was the icing on the cake which flipped the switch for me. No more nicey nice from me to him. I will avoid him whenever I bump into him, and I do not care to say hello or speak to him. He's a cancer sore and not someone I will associate with. Period. Still, I am shaken by the experience this week with him coming at me with guns blazing over the election. I had been posting about feminist principles, and he attacked me. He is someone who doesn't respect women, so of course he came at me. I will stand for what I stand for though, and I do not take any crap from anyone. Not anymore.

Not my saying, but one I like.

Once you stop making yourself small, not everyone fits into your life.

@RDMercer, how am I making myself small? That's not my own perspective or perception of myself. I've just always been too open, too friendly, and too accepting, without many boundaries early on. That's the mistake I see myself making in these relationships.

Hi Hope

I wasn’t giving you advice.

I was cheering you on.

You said:

I will stand for what I stand for though, and I do not take any crap from anyone. Not anymore.

And then I was all like

“Yeah! Tell him! Don’t make yourself small! Stand up and squeeze him out of your space!! Eff that effing head case!!”

@RDMercer ah ok, now I understand. Thanks for clarifying!!!!

Yeah, screw him. I am done.