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Why I wanted a boyfriend so desperately and it's not because of daddy issues but because then I have someone that loves me I wouldn't be a disappointment I wish that I could move out and have my own babies and then I could start over id finally have someone to love me and I wouldn't need her love anymore. That's what I wish.
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Mum said she loves me but I still feel like she's gonna abandon me and I guess I'm affected by trauma.
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If you are always looking for someone to love you, you are always at risk of being abandoned. An adult learns to stand on her own two feet, to care for herself, to be okay by herself. To love herself, THEN she can love and care for someone else. Its a two-way street. A mothers love for a child is one-way - it doesnt translate to adulthood.
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