A little confused

Alittlelost · May 16, 2011 at 11:23 AM

I am waiting for the results of my ipde (international personality disorder evaluation) but today me and my cpn was talking about it and she said from the answers i gave she beleived i have DPD.

I have been reading a few of your posts and am a little confused about this personality disorder. From what i can make out DPDs don't like being alone, which doesn't bother me. The reason my cpn suggested this disorder is because i'm not good at making decisions and really struggle with uncertainty. I also have distructive behaviours especially when interpersonal relationships break down and am a people pleaser. For example i will do anything for anybody no matter what it is to get their approval. I tend to get myself in controlling or destructive relationships with friends and past partners....i seem to seek more dominant people out.

The more i write the more scense it is making. But what do you lot think?

twistedsister · May 16, 2011 at 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Alittlelost

I am waiting for the results of my ipde (international personality disorder evaluation) but today me and my cpn was talking about it and she said from the answers i gave she beleived i have DPD.

I have been reading a few of your posts and am a little confused about this personality disorder. From what i can make out DPDs don't like being alone, which doesn't bother me. The reason my cpn suggested this disorder is because i'm not good at making decisions and really struggle with uncertainty. I also have distructive behaviours especially when interpersonal relationships break down and am a people pleaser. For example i will do anything for anybody no matter what it is to get their approval. I tend to get myself in controlling or destructive relationships with friends and past partners....i seem to seek more dominant people out.

The more i write the more scense it is making. But what do you lot think?

Hello they call me Torn. You have come to the right place for some answers. I don't know the answers you seek, but would love to just be your friend. I have BPD and some of the things you are going through... well I have those sometimes. Big hugs and happy healing to you.
Torn

Alittlelost · May 16, 2011 at 04:22 PM

Thank you Torn, i appreciate your reply.

horseshoe94 · Jun 28, 2011 at 11:59 AM

i want to be your friend to lol....it sounds like you might have dpd.....you dont have to have all the signs of dpd to be dependent....but it sounds like you have a lot...i can relate i have a lot of those to...hope all goes well good luck

pudsey · Feb 21, 2012 at 10:57 AM

I would love to be able to speak to you all and chat about our feeelings and thoughts its hard when you have no one to turn to

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Alittlelost Member Member Since May 2011 Location: UK Posts: 31 13	May 16, 2011 at 04:22 PM #3 Thank you Torn, i appreciate your reply.
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horseshoe94 Junior Member Member Since Jun 2011 Posts: 14 13	Jun 28, 2011 at 11:59 AM #4 i want to be your friend to lol....it sounds like you might have dpd.....you dont have to have all the signs of dpd to be dependent....but it sounds like you have a lot...i can relate i have a lot of those to...hope all goes well good luck
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pudsey Member Member Since Feb 2012 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 43 12 8 hugs given	Feb 21, 2012 at 10:57 AM #5 I would love to be able to speak to you all and chat about our feeelings and thoughts its hard when you have no one to turn to
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