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Jun 03, 2009, 02:35 PM
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I have had some bad thoughts today and I can't make them stop. Last night, I seen my ex, and he grab my arms and yelled at me like never before. He was so rough and mean to me. He came and took the dogs away for good. I really feel like there is no reason to live anymore. I don't know how much I can take!
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Jun 03, 2009, 06:40 PM
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Hi brokenheart....
 I'm really sorry your ex grabbed your arm and screamed at you like he did. And to then, on top of that, take your pets away!!  How awful for you!!!Were you two married or just bf/gf? In some states, depending on their laws, you can file for custody of the "family" pets. If they were your animals as much as they were his, I would call legal aid or an attorney and see if there is something you could do to get your dogs back. I think his behavior was very inappropriate. I would even suggest filing a police report for him being assaultive and threatening like he was. I stand behind you!! And I hope things work out for you. Keep posting here and we will all be here for you. 
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Jun 03, 2009, 06:47 PM
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oh I am so very sorry this happened to you. You must have been so scared and angry! I agree filing a police report would be a good idea. They may not be able to do anything, but having a paper trail of abuse is always helpful. Please keep posting here, look through all our wonderful forums and posts. Don't forget, when you're feeling really bad and could just use a smile, check out our games forum. There are lots of distracting things there.
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Jun 04, 2009, 03:23 AM
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I am sorry you were handled like that. That was uncalled for. Depending upon your status, married or unmarried/divorced, you can definitely consult an attorney regarding your rights pertaining to your dogs. And you can also file a grievance against your ex for abuse.
Good Luck with whatever you choose to do. You have my support. Slick 
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Jun 04, 2009, 05:14 AM
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(((((((((brokenheart))))))))))
I agree with everyone above. Seeing if you can do something about getting your pets back and/or filing a police report about your abusive ex is definitely a good idea, and it may help dispel those bad thoughts by knowing that you're doing something pro-active about the situation. Good luck, and keep us posted on how you're doing.  
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