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Jul 22, 2009, 10:21 PM
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my mother and i fought the other day.. about my classes...
she had a wine glass in her hand.. and for some reason.. i had the fear she was going to throw it at me. i could feel my heart racing so fast.. it was pounding and i was so scared...
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Jul 22, 2009, 10:50 PM
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Jul 22, 2009, 11:12 PM
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I don't know your mother obviously, but I'm sure she was just yelling at you because she cares about you and wants the best for you. Better to be angry at you then completely apathetic and doesn't care at all what you do, right? I could be missing something here. I don't know if your mom is abusive or anything but I'm sure deep down inside she cares a whole lot about you. People have their flaws. I'd forgive her and move on with it. Good luck with your classes.
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Jul 23, 2009, 07:59 AM
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((((((((((((((((( EntangledDepression )))))))))))))))))))
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Jul 23, 2009, 08:53 AM
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mother often yells at me.. for the slightest wrong doing...
i dont understand why im always yelled at.. why am i treated differently to the others... she often threatens to ground me.. especially when my elbows are on the table at dinner... but she never does that to the others... we fought again this evening.. and the same thing... why does my heart start racing when i see that wine glass.. why can i feel the shards piercing me... why do i feel like she will throw it at me.. my chest feels like rubber bands tightening around it... i dont understand why
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Jul 24, 2009, 09:29 AM
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It might not be something you can understand given the facts available to you. It could be so many things. Right now it might be best to focus on protecting yourself. On how to deal with it, not the why. The why can come a bit later, maybe it will become clear with time.
I'm sorry it's this way though.
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